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Oh I don't know about it not working out. If both of you are clearly happier together than you are apart, then you obviously had something going. And there is the undeniable fact that, despite splitting up, you've both turned your thoughts to each other again. You've had the rare experience of being together and being apart. Which is better..?

 

Give it a go, mate.

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How is Minty now?

 

He doesn't know it, but I was getting plenty. He was the only one who'd TAKE though.

 

Seriously, I split with my fiancee not too long after we first met, but that was because I had got together with her too soon after splitting from my previous gf and there were a few issues hanging around in my head. I recognised it, sorted it, and now, nearly 4 years later, I'm planning our wedding for June. :cool:

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I don't think it would ever work TBF.

 

But then i have never been tempted, if i had split with someone there was usually a reason.

 

Once you upgrade your car you would not go back to the old banger would you ? :rolleyes:

 

I got dumped.

 

Meh I'm going to give it another go and just take it slowwww.

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Never. No-one can be that short of options that they have to tread on familiar ground. There are plenty of members of the opposite (or same if we're being PC) sex out there.

 

I would not count schoolkid relationships amongst these. If my schoolboy girlfriend is out there and wants some grown-up SNSUN, she can have me. :-)

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think about it....

 

Then write down in two columns....why you like/love about the person, and what you hate about them...

 

If you have more of one than the other - go with it.

 

If they remain equal............at least you'll be getting some good cardio workout..while you make up your mind...!

 

 

lol!

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Think about it....

 

Then write down in two columns....why you like/love about the person, and what you hate about them...

 

If you have more of one than the other - go with it.

 

If they remain equal............at least you'll be getting some good cardio workout..while you make up your mind...!

 

Surely if you have to go this far into it then it is just not worth it ???

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Surely if you have to go this far into it then it is just not worth it ???

 

Maybe...but at least it saves the to'ing and fro'ing about whether it is good to stay together or not - and endless conversations over 'its not you its me'

 

If nothing else it makes you realise whether you really like them or not - chances are you'll give them the elbow in time..!!

 

The one time I tried the exercise, I managed to complete it in my head - negatives overruled the positives...time to end it.

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Yay or nay?

 

Has anyone split up with someone, got back together and is now having a good relationship?

 

xx

 

Good God no. There's a reason you split up, I couldn't imagine anything worse than "going back" B*llocks to that, the future is too good to go back and have what you had before.

 

What a hideous thought! Onwards and upwards, you can only get better ;-)

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Maybe...but at least it saves the to'ing and fro'ing about whether it is good to stay together or not - and endless conversations over 'its not you its me'

 

If nothing else it makes you realise whether you really like them or not - chances are you'll give them the elbow in time..!!

 

The one time I tried the exercise, I managed to complete it in my head - negatives overruled the positives...time to end it.

 

Fair point, i am possibly not old and so experience enough for a full answer yet.

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Me and the missus broke up when we both went to different uni's, as we both decided that we didn't want to feel constricted. Reached my final year, we're both single after two and half years of other people, and we get back together after we realised that we were happiest together. Had a lot of fun with other girls, and my share of the requisite one night stands, but never met anyone else who made me as happy. It can work.

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