thesaint sfc Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Yay or nay? Has anyone split up with someone, got back together and is now having a good relationship? xx
Scummer Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 How long have you been split up for. And how long were you together?
scott_saints Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 I did it a few times before- never worked. The same problems always swiftly return!
thesaint sfc Posted 27 March, 2009 Author Posted 27 March, 2009 How long have you been split up for. And how long were you together? About 2 months, 6 months ago.
Jillyanne Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never works I am afraid, you split up in the first place for a reason.
Scummer Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 I once went out with a girl, and at the start we didn't get on all that well. We split up a few times, only to get back together. We've now been together for 7 years, and married for 4.
Jillyanne Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 If you have/have had a broken heart, don't worry, it can be mended:- Scientists have found it is possible to mend a broken heart. US researchers studied 70 patients with "broken heart syndrome", a recognised condition linked to stressful or emotional events. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7967660.stm
thesaint sfc Posted 27 March, 2009 Author Posted 27 March, 2009 I once went out with a girl, and at the start we didn't get on all that well. We split up a few times, only to get back together. We've now been together for 7 years, and married for 4. I'll go on that basis. Thanks mate.
Saint Keith Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 It'll never last. well it might. all the time she's ****ging someone else behind his back and he doesnt find out
Weston Super Saint Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never works. Does he have a fit brother you could go out with instead?
saints-cris Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never works.. theres a reason you broke up in the first place. Cut the cord.
scott_saints Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 working ok for me From what you've said before.....it's been on and off with you and the wench hasn't it?? To me that says it's not working too well!
saint_stevo Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 From what you've said before.....it's been on and off with you and the wench hasn't it?? To me that says it's not working too well! 4 years in total, break up every 9months or so.
St Landrew Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Oh I don't know about it not working out. If both of you are clearly happier together than you are apart, then you obviously had something going. And there is the undeniable fact that, despite splitting up, you've both turned your thoughts to each other again. You've had the rare experience of being together and being apart. Which is better..? Give it a go, mate.
Al de Man Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Got back together after a month because neither of us were getting any but it didn't feel right and we ended up as fk-buddies for a couple of months.
Pancake Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Got back together after a month because neither of us were getting any but it didn't feel right and we ended up as fk-buddies for a couple of months. How is Minty now?
Smirking_Saint Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 I don't think it would ever work TBF. But then i have never been tempted, if i had split with someone there was usually a reason. Once you upgrade your car you would not go back to the old banger would you ?
Minty Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 How is Minty now? He doesn't know it, but I was getting plenty. He was the only one who'd TAKE though. Seriously, I split with my fiancee not too long after we first met, but that was because I had got together with her too soon after splitting from my previous gf and there were a few issues hanging around in my head. I recognised it, sorted it, and now, nearly 4 years later, I'm planning our wedding for June. :cool:
thesaint sfc Posted 27 March, 2009 Author Posted 27 March, 2009 I don't think it would ever work TBF. But then i have never been tempted, if i had split with someone there was usually a reason. Once you upgrade your car you would not go back to the old banger would you ? I got dumped. Meh I'm going to give it another go and just take it slowwww.
Torres Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Seriously, I split with my fiancee not too long after we first met, You didn't hang around in getting engaged then...
LGTL Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 It does work sometimes. Me and the Mrs were together 4 years, we split up for a couple of months, and are now back together better than ever. Depends on the individuals involved.
Michelle Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Don't do it. As someone else said, same old problems will resurface eventually.
Colinjb Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never in a million years should you get back with an ex.
EastleighSoulBoy Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Shouldn't this thread be in the Sick Jokes Sub Forum?
harvey Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never in a million years should you get back with an ex. Depends 'which' ex it is :neutral:
SNSUN Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never. No-one can be that short of options that they have to tread on familiar ground. There are plenty of members of the opposite (or same if we're being PC) sex out there. I would not count schoolkid relationships amongst these. If my schoolboy girlfriend is out there and wants some grown-up SNSUN, she can have me. :-)
Minty Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 You didn't hang around in getting engaged then... We weren't engaged at the time...
exit2 Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 I'm planning our wedding for June. :cool: need a photographer
StuRomseySaint Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never. I have been back and ****ged a few of my ex's before, that's mainly because I am the best they have ever had and they begged me for more, but actually 'going out' with them again is a big no,no.
EastleighSoulBoy Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Never. I have been back and ****ged a few of my ex's before, that's mainly because I am the best they have ever had and they begged me for more, but actually 'going out' with them again is a big no,no. Don't tell me, let me guess. They fell in love with your modesty? :smt017
Weston Super Saint Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Don't tell me, let me guess. They fell in love with your modesty? :smt017 Nah, they were just fat and no-one else wanted them.
Channon's Sideburns Posted 27 March, 2009 Posted 27 March, 2009 Think about it.... Then write down in two columns....why you like/love about the person, and what you hate about them... If you have more of one than the other - go with it. If they remain equal............at least you'll be getting some good cardio workout..while you make up your mind...!
Summers Posted 28 March, 2009 Posted 28 March, 2009 think about it.... Then write down in two columns....why you like/love about the person, and what you hate about them... If you have more of one than the other - go with it. If they remain equal............at least you'll be getting some good cardio workout..while you make up your mind...! lol!
Smirking_Saint Posted 28 March, 2009 Posted 28 March, 2009 Think about it.... Then write down in two columns....why you like/love about the person, and what you hate about them... If you have more of one than the other - go with it. If they remain equal............at least you'll be getting some good cardio workout..while you make up your mind...! Surely if you have to go this far into it then it is just not worth it ???
Channon's Sideburns Posted 28 March, 2009 Posted 28 March, 2009 Surely if you have to go this far into it then it is just not worth it ??? Maybe...but at least it saves the to'ing and fro'ing about whether it is good to stay together or not - and endless conversations over 'its not you its me' If nothing else it makes you realise whether you really like them or not - chances are you'll give them the elbow in time..!! The one time I tried the exercise, I managed to complete it in my head - negatives overruled the positives...time to end it.
Patrick Bateman Posted 29 March, 2009 Posted 29 March, 2009 Yay or nay? Has anyone split up with someone, got back together and is now having a good relationship? xx Good God no. There's a reason you split up, I couldn't imagine anything worse than "going back" B*llocks to that, the future is too good to go back and have what you had before. What a hideous thought! Onwards and upwards, you can only get better ;-)
Smirking_Saint Posted 30 March, 2009 Posted 30 March, 2009 Maybe...but at least it saves the to'ing and fro'ing about whether it is good to stay together or not - and endless conversations over 'its not you its me' If nothing else it makes you realise whether you really like them or not - chances are you'll give them the elbow in time..!! The one time I tried the exercise, I managed to complete it in my head - negatives overruled the positives...time to end it. Fair point, i am possibly not old and so experience enough for a full answer yet.
saints_is_the_south Posted 30 March, 2009 Posted 30 March, 2009 Tried it once & we split up again after about a month if i recall correctly, may have been even less. Don't think i can remember of a time when a mate has done it & it worked 2nd time round either. So a big no.
Bristol Saint Posted 1 April, 2009 Posted 1 April, 2009 Me and the missus broke up when we both went to different uni's, as we both decided that we didn't want to feel constricted. Reached my final year, we're both single after two and half years of other people, and we get back together after we realised that we were happiest together. Had a lot of fun with other girls, and my share of the requisite one night stands, but never met anyone else who made me as happy. It can work.
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