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  On 03/10/2021 at 14:38, Southamptonsi said:

What happened to the ugly inside?

I always enjoy the YouTube videos for football.  There needs to be a saints one.

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The Southampton Forum | The Ugly Inside (fansnetwork.co.uk)

 

Still there, but the forum is overrun by helmets now. Nick has also become Goas biggest cheerleader.  Still a good few posters on there but it's been ruined.

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  On 04/10/2021 at 08:27, SalmonSi said:

Not surprised the site is dying. I have registered an account at least 3 weeks back and still not had approval. 

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Membership is a lot tighter there these days. Check out the first post on the message board.

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  On 04/10/2021 at 08:27, SalmonSi said:

Not surprised the site is dying. I have registered an account at least 3 weeks back and still not had approval. 

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It’s become a lot better since the resident narcissist was kicked off. Sadly he is infecting this place instead now. As for Nick, he is not a cheerleader for Gao, he merely points out the obvious, that as much as we need a new owner and proper investment, at least Gao is letting the Board run the club on a self sustaining basis (as Leibherr did) and whilst not a positive influence, at least he isn’t a negative influence either . Not sure how that translates into his biggest cheerleader? Only someone with a bitter agenda would know.

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  On 04/10/2021 at 09:08, sadoldgit said:

It’s become a lot better since the resident narcissist was kicked off. Sadly he is infecting this place instead now. As for Nick, he is not a cheerleader for Gao, he merely points out the obvious, that as much as we need a new owner and proper investment, at least Gao is letting the Board run the club on a self sustaining basis (as Leibherr did) and whilst not a positive influence, at least he isn’t a negative influence either . Not sure how that translates into his biggest cheerleader? Only someone with a bitter agenda would know.

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Still pretending I’m on ignore hey soggy? I noticed you posted on a thread I started the other day as well. A man of your age pretending you’ve got people on ignore on an Internet forum, what a tragic existence 🤣🤣🤣

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  On 04/10/2021 at 09:08, sadoldgit said:

It’s become a lot better since the resident narcissist was kicked off. Sadly he is infecting this place instead now. As for Nick, he is not a cheerleader for Gao, he merely points out the obvious, that as much as we need a new owner and proper investment, at least Gao is letting the Board run the club on a self sustaining basis (as Leibherr did) and whilst not a positive influence, at least he isn’t a negative influence either . Not sure how that translates into his biggest cheerleader? Only someone with a bitter agenda would know.

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Who is that? 

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  On 05/10/2021 at 07:42, Toussaint said:

Who is that? 

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The man with the giant ego has already outed himself here and it didn’t take long. The guaranteed thing about narcissists is that they thrive on attention, good or bad. Any attention feeds their need to boost their self esteem and so as long as they are being talked about, it’s all good. In mental health circles it is called “supply”. People with NPD need a regular “supply” in order to keep feeding their need to build up their self worth. You can see it with the likes of Trump and Johnson. I was married to someone with NPD for several years and living with them on a daily basis is a nightmare! No surprise to find many of them lurking on anonymous Internet forums where they can wallow in their perceived sense of superiority to their heart’s content, until they get banned of course. Fortunately that happened on the other forum and instead of it being all about him, issues are at least being discussed on their merits rather than just to satisfy one person’s need to build up his ego. Like all football forums, the Ugly gets bogged down in circular arguments and the usual abusive stuff, but it happens on all sites. Nick gets a lot of flak but to me he writes fair and balanced posts and it is refreshing to find someone who is not looking to bash the club at every opportunity. As with all sites you have to take the wheat with the chaff and it isn’t for everybody, but it is worth a try and there is no daily limit to posts (which in my case is probably not a good idea!).

I’m not aware that new people are being blocked from joining? Perhaps it is taking admin a while to assess new applicants to make sure the banned members don’t return? I really don’t know but nothing has been said about a closed membership.

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  On 05/10/2021 at 09:48, sadoldgit said:

The man with the giant ego has already outed himself here and it didn’t take long. The guaranteed thing about narcissists is that they thrive on attention, good or bad. Any attention feeds their need to boost their self esteem and so as long as they are being talked about, it’s all good. In mental health circles it is called “supply”. People with NPD need a regular “supply” in order to keep feeding their need to build up their self worth. You can see it with the likes of Trump and Johnson. I was married to someone with NPD for several years and living with them on a daily basis is a nightmare! No surprise to find many of them lurking on anonymous Internet forums where they can wallow in their perceived sense of superiority to their heart’s content, until they get banned of course. Fortunately that happened on the other forum and instead of it being all about him, issues are at least being discussed on their merits rather than just to satisfy one person’s need to build up his ego. Like all football forums, the Ugly gets bogged down in circular arguments and the usual abusive stuff, but it happens on all sites. Nick gets a lot of flak but to me he writes fair and balanced posts and it is refreshing to find someone who is not looking to bash the club at every opportunity. As with all sites you have to take the wheat with the chaff and it isn’t for everybody, but it is worth a try and there is no daily limit to posts (which in my case is probably not a good idea!).

I’m not aware that new people are being blocked from joining? Perhaps it is taking admin a while to assess new applicants to make sure the banned members don’t return? I really don’t know but nothing has been said about a closed membership.

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You dont half come out with some nonsense but this is something special even by your standards. I guess it must be your Messiah complex that drives this weird behaviour, also managed to squeeze in another Trump Johnson mention into your post! it's frigging hilarious that you've been outed as pretending to have me on ignore, how embarrassing. 

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  On 05/10/2021 at 12:05, wild-saint said:

I take it you dont like this one "if you use a VPN to hide who you are when
you create new user IDs then you're highly unlikely to be approved."?  ;) 

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indeed. A rather bizarre story attached to that point, i wont go into for the good of the forum and most importantly Nick who has worked hard on that site over the years and is a decent guy, even though we dont always agree. Some very strange people on there with agenda. 

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  On 05/10/2021 at 11:48, Turkish said:

Yet you felt the need to post about it Big Brother Reaction GIF by Big Brother After Dark

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Im free to post when and what i like 👍

Suggest you move on, as you keep mentioning how often people post to you. Not that everyone does, I mean literally I didnt quote you, I thought the whole topic was getting a little boring, and decidingly worse when you started bitching on about people following you. Even Sadoldgit didnt quote you - perhaps you are a little paranoid they are talking about you paranoid meet the robinsons GIF

Seems you may be the one with the 'hidden' issues, but we knew that from some of the crap you post about LGBTQ and other stuff

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  On 05/10/2021 at 09:48, sadoldgit said:

The man with the giant ego has already outed himself here and it didn’t take long. The guaranteed thing about narcissists is that they thrive on attention, good or bad. Any attention feeds their need to boost their self esteem and so as long as they are being talked about, it’s all good. In mental health circles it is called “supply”. People with NPD need a regular “supply” in order to keep feeding their need to build up their self worth. You can see it with the likes of Trump and Johnson. I was married to someone with NPD for several years and living with them on a daily basis is a nightmare! No surprise to find many of them lurking on anonymous Internet forums where they can wallow in their perceived sense of superiority to their heart’s content, until they get banned of course. Fortunately that happened on the other forum and instead of it being all about him, issues are at least being discussed on their merits rather than just to satisfy one person’s need to build up his ego. Like all football forums, the Ugly gets bogged down in circular arguments and the usual abusive stuff, but it happens on all sites. Nick gets a lot of flak but to me he writes fair and balanced posts and it is refreshing to find someone who is not looking to bash the club at every opportunity. As with all sites you have to take the wheat with the chaff and it isn’t for everybody, but it is worth a try and there is no daily limit to posts (which in my case is probably not a good idea!).

I’m not aware that new people are being blocked from joining? Perhaps it is taking admin a while to assess new applicants to make sure the banned members don’t return? I really don’t know but nothing has been said about a closed membership.

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Just chucking my two Penneth in:

Boris isn’t perfect….but I’d rather have the Taliban in charge of the country than the race baiting, socialist,  anti-Semitic filth that is the Labour Party. And the USA are waking up to Biden in a big way now….the country has regressed massively since Trump left office. You people never learn. 

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  On 05/10/2021 at 12:27, Dorchester Saint said:

Just chucking my two Penneth in:

Boris isn’t perfect….but I’d rather have the Taliban in charge of the country than the race baiting, socialist,  anti-Semitic filth that is the Labour Party. And the USA are waking up to Biden in a big way now….the country has regressed massively since Trump left office. You people never learn. 

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Which attitude displays clearly why these people get into power and why we are in the mess we are in.

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  On 05/10/2021 at 14:18, sadoldgit said:

Congratulations. You have just become a bigger idiot than Turkish. No mean feat. You must be very proud.

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I wonder if your missus did have NPD or like most other people simply thought you're a complete bellend and in your arrogance you blamed it on this.

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Posted
  On 05/10/2021 at 12:27, Dorchester Saint said:

Just chucking my two Penneth in:

Boris isn’t perfect….but I’d rather have the Taliban in charge of the country than the race baiting, socialist,  anti-Semitic filth that is the Labour Party. And the USA are waking up to Biden in a big way now….the country has regressed massively since Trump left office. You people never learn. 

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Truly brainwashed 😅🤡

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  On 05/10/2021 at 14:52, Turkish said:

I wonder if your missus did have NPD or like most other people simply thought you're a complete bellend and in your arrogance you blamed it on this.

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There's that need for "supply" coming out again. 

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  On 05/10/2021 at 18:55, Whitey Grandad said:

Too be honest I would have written cervices but I’m old school and it’s not something you’d write very often. Very few people have more than one.

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I would probably written cervices just for the, ahem, crack.

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  On 06/10/2021 at 08:32, Dorchester Saint said:

Aaaah, I’m an idiot because I believe in basic biology. What a classics leftwaffe response. You’re a tool. 

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That he is. I wonder if you see his speaking out against racism posts? Those are a thing of beauty, all over every anti racism thread telling everyone what they should be doing. Then it turned out when questioned on it he actually only knows two none white people, his barber and a barmaid in his local. Hilarious stuff.

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  On 06/10/2021 at 08:32, Dorchester Saint said:

Aaaah, I’m an idiot because I believe in basic biology. What a classics leftwaffe response. You’re a tool. 

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I was referring to your comment about the Taliban and have no idea why that has anything to do with your basic beliefs in biology.

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  On 06/10/2021 at 10:11, sadoldgit said:

I was referring to your comment about the Taliban and have no idea why that has anything to do with your basic beliefs in biology.

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Yet your reply was to the one about the cervix 😕.  Perhaps even you realise what a ridiculous comment that was and are trying to wriggle out of it by pretending you were talking about something other than the post you quoted :lol: However I congratulate you on being slightly more self aware than i thought you were.

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  On 05/10/2021 at 16:14, Jonnyboy said:

There's that need for "supply" coming out again. 

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Exactly right. Narcissists call other people names and belittle them because it makes them feel and (they think) look superior. They only look superior to their enablers. As well as our resident forum narcissist, people like Trump and Johnson do the same thing on a public platform. They have to have some level of lack of self awareness to think that they actually come across as anything other than obnoxious self promoting egotists.

Getting back on track, the Ugly is still operating normally.

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  On 06/10/2021 at 09:36, Fan The Flames said:

So can anyone confirm what's happened to the Ugly Inside?

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Dave happened. Absolute fucking loony.

I haven’t posted on there for more than a year but it now seems to be dominated by a small handful of people who have literally nothing interesting to say at all.

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  On 06/10/2021 at 10:00, Turkish said:

That he is. I wonder if you see his speaking out against racism posts? Those are a thing of beauty, all over every anti racism thread telling everyone what they should be doing. Then it turned out when questioned on it he actually only knows two none white people, his barber and a barmaid in his local. Hilarious stuff.

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So the more non-white people you know the less racist you are? Sounds like "leftwaffle" to me. 

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  On 06/10/2021 at 18:40, Jonnyboy said:

So the more non-white people you know the less racist you are? Sounds like "leftwaffle" to me. 

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Given Soggys exposure to non white people he’d love more as they provide a service to him

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  On 06/10/2021 at 18:44, Jonnyboy said:

Not what I asked. 

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I didn’t say I was answering you merely pointing out Soggys experience and perhaps a reason why he’s so desperate to appear anti racist

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