Turkish Posted 11 September, 2021 Share Posted 11 September, 2021 50 minutes ago, whelk said: You, as am I, are of a generation where it was mocked and many gay people were terrified of coming out. Why and when do you think that changed? Was it messaging that you once found acceptable eroding hateful prejudices that you now think isn’t needed? Or do you think it just miraculously happened? I do get the virtual signal annoyance but it all contributes to people seeing that football (where no player has yet come out - a statistical anomaly) supporting Pride and tolerance and that helps change societies views. I include myself in that as well. I can’t speak for other but for me the moment I realised it was okay to be gay was when I saw Diego Costa wearing rainbow laces Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whelk Posted 11 September, 2021 Share Posted 11 September, 2021 40 minutes ago, Turkish said: I can’t speak for other but for me the moment I realised it was okay to be gay was when I saw Diego Costa wearing rainbow laces So it worked well then. Let’s hope the the laces win over a few similarly unenlightened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypochondriac Posted 11 September, 2021 Share Posted 11 September, 2021 10 minutes ago, whelk said: So it worked well then. Let’s hope the the laces win over a few similarly unenlightened. I think some of the issue I have personally is that some symbols like certain versions of the rainbow flag are actually quite controversial and political. That means it's not just a case of waving everything through for the sake of diversity, plenty of people are 100% on board with acceptance for people and freedom to live without abuse but are vehemently opposed to the other bits that go with some of it. Stonewall for example are now opposed by their founder and their insidious nature for some of their modern activities have been revealed as their champions program is falling apart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 11 September, 2021 Share Posted 11 September, 2021 1 hour ago, whelk said: So it worked well then. Let’s hope the the laces win over a few similarly unenlightened. Do we need weekly reminders 1 hour ago, whelk said: So it worked well then. Let’s hope the the laces win over a few similarly unenlightened. Yeah but it only lasted for a few days. I need these frequent reminders as I end up defaulting to hating LGBTs again. They are almost like an anti depressant that I need regularly the keep the inclusivity levels topped up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Cat Posted 11 September, 2021 Share Posted 11 September, 2021 Saw someone wearing the shirt at the match today. It's actually well smart although I'd look ridiculous in it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StDunko Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 I was disappointed to hear a group of West Ham fans chanting homophobic slurs in a pub after the game on Saturday (about Chelsea allegedly being rent boys, everywhere they go). Clearly more work needs to be done to make such stuff culturally unacceptable. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 7 minutes ago, StDunko said: I was disappointed to hear a group of West Ham fans chanting homophobic slurs in a pub after the game on Saturday (about Chelsea allegedly being rent boys, everywhere they go). Clearly more work needs to be done to make such stuff culturally unacceptable. I think you’ll find that this isn’t a homophobic chant. The originals of the chant refer back to the fact that Stamford bridge was originally an athletics stadium and also offered to Fulham before Chelsea took over the rental of The stadium. Hence the originals of the stadium refer back to the time Chelsea were tenants in a stadium not offered to them not built for football. Still let’s not let the facts get in the way of some handwringing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 2 hours ago, Turkish said: I think you’ll find that this isn’t a homophobic chant. The originals of the chant refer back to the fact that Stamford bridge was originally an athletics stadium and also offered to Fulham before Chelsea took over the rental of The stadium. Hence the originals of the stadium refer back to the time Chelsea were tenants in a stadium not offered to them not built for football. Still let’s not let the facts get in the way of some handwringing And you actually believe that do you? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 18 minutes ago, cloggy saint said: And you actually believe that do you? Prove me wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alanh Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 1 hour ago, Turkish said: Prove me wrong Loads of evidence online. Links if you are interested in finding out more about it: https://liverpooloffside.sbnation.com/2021/8/30/22648994/unpacking-song-chant-chelsea-liverpool-anfield-homophobia-lgbt-rent-boys-chant-explanation 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Alanh said: Loads of evidence online. Links if you are interested in finding out more about it: https://liverpooloffside.sbnation.com/2021/8/30/22648994/unpacking-song-chant-chelsea-liverpool-anfield-homophobia-lgbt-rent-boys-chant-explanation Two VERY reliable sources. A student in califronia and an LGBT Norwich fan who thinks it was started by a Chelsea headhunter Edited 15 September, 2021 by Turkish 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 11 minutes ago, Turkish said: Two VERY reliable sources. A student in califronia and an LGBT Norwich fan who thinks it was started by a Chelsea headhunter Are these sources any less credible than you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) 1 minute ago, cloggy saint said: Are these sources any less credible than you? Yes. I forgot the bit where the Norwich fan said "there was probably an expose in the Sun" Also here other comment on "wouldn't it be great if all Chelsea fans were gay" isn't very inclusive! Edited 15 September, 2021 by Turkish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 1 minute ago, Turkish said: Yes. 😆 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 Just now, cloggy saint said: 😆 "i think it was a Chelsea headhunter" "there was probably an expose in the sun" Yeah that's really credible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Left Back Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 1 hour ago, Turkish said: Prove me wrong I think the emphasis should probably be on you to prove you are right. I had a quick look and couldn't find anything to back up your interpretation of the origin. I did stumble on several different derivations for the chant but they were all broadly homophobic. I'd be happy for your story to have substance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) 3 minutes ago, The Left Back said: I think the emphasis should probably be on you to prove you are right. I had a quick look and couldn't find anything to back up your interpretation of the origin. I did stumble on several different derivations for the chant but they were all broadly homophobic. I'd be happy for your story to have substance Maybe you need to do some more research than just take the first thing you read as face value. It may have been jumped on as a homophobic chant but the origins stem from something different. I remember Wimbledon and Charlton fans also faced similar abuse when they were homeless. Edited 15 September, 2021 by Turkish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alanh Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) I think I know how this one goes. Someone offer Turkish evidence, he doesn't accept it, ridicules it, picks up on tiny points to diminish it's value and then deflects the conversation rather than prove his version of events / opinion. If he does find some evidence he will hold that above all others as unequivocal proof. The bit about Stamford Bridge initially being an athletics stadium and offered to Fulham is right - https://www.chelseafc.com/en/history/stadium-history - but there doesn't seem to be any evidence of a link between that and the song. Edited 15 September, 2021 by Alanh 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Left Back Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 11 minutes ago, Turkish said: Maybe you need to do some more research than just take the first thing you read as face value. It may have been jumped on as a homophobic chant but the origins stem from something different. I remember Wimbledon and Charlton fans also faced similar abuse when they were homeless. I am sure I could but I am not so bothered. I was intrigued more than anything because I had just assumed the other interpretation. I kind of hoped you would be able to produce some sort of evidence to back up your story, which otherwise sounds like it belongs in Viz. And I know others are having a pop at you about this but please don't assume I am. If you're right I'm surprised we didn't sing it ourselves when Brighton were at the Withdean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whelk Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 What is the chant? Being a wise old fucker myself I will be able to provide the definitive answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, whelk said: What is the chant? Being a wise old fucker myself I will be able to provide the definitive answer. The original chant was to the tune of once in royal David’s city it went once in England’s capital city stood a lonely athletics track there a team from west london Paid the rent to take it back with the poor and meek and lowly chelseas rents boys played there only but it’s been shortened over the years to just Chelsea rent boys an now the wokies have decided it’s offensive 🙄 Edited 15 September, 2021 by Turkish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 I really don't know why I'm giving you the oxygen that you clearly crave, but do you think the people using this chant today are having a dig because Chelsea used to rent their ground nearly 120 years ago? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tajjuk Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 40 minutes ago, cloggy saint said: I really don't know why I'm giving you the oxygen that you clearly crave, but do you think the people using this chant today are having a dig because Chelsea used to rent their ground nearly 120 years ago? You have to ask yourself why he is going through mental gymnastics to come up with an absurd reason to just to excuse some obvious homophobia. 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 49 minutes ago, cloggy saint said: I really don't know why I'm giving you the oxygen that you clearly crave, but do you think the people using this chant today are having a dig because Chelsea used to rent their ground nearly 120 years ago? Saints and Norwich both sing songs from over 100 years ago, so it's possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 Ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearsy Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 16 minutes ago, tajjuk said: You have to ask yourself why he is going through mental gymnastics to come up with an absurd reason to just to excuse some obvious homophobia. I'm bit of an expert on rent boys cos of my friend and tbh I think the offensive part of "rent boy" is the prostitution angle. The fact that the majority of my clients, I mean my friend's clients, are male is purely incidental and I'm not at all shamed by that, and neither is my friend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lighthouse Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 23 minutes ago, Bearsy said: I'm bit of an expert on rent boys cos of my friend and tbh I think the offensive part of "rent boy" is the prostitution angle. The fact that the majority of my clients, I mean my friend's clients, are male is purely incidental and I'm not at all shamed by that, and neither is my friend. I’ve missed you Brian. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, Alanh said: I think I know how this one goes. Someone offer Turkish evidence, he doesn't accept it, ridicules it, picks up on tiny points to diminish it's value and then deflects the conversation rather than prove his version of events / opinion. If he does find some evidence he will hold that above all others as unequivocal proof. The bit about Stamford Bridge initially being an athletics stadium and offered to Fulham is right - https://www.chelseafc.com/en/history/stadium-history - but there doesn't seem to be any evidence of a link between that and the song. So If I got that bit right why don’t you believe the rest of it? Not part of the acceptable narrative I guess. It offensive because someone decided it is i also didn’t mention that the chant started again in the 80s as Ken bates bought and owned the stadium and Chelsea were again renting it from him, hence Chelsea rent boys. not sure Why you would think Chelsea would post on their history oftheir stadium history page that in latter years other fans would use it as a means to mock them 🙄 Edited 15 September, 2021 by Turkish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suewhistle Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 (edited) Bearsy, who allowed _you_ back?!? Did you know there have been sequels to Fifty Shades..? No, I don't why know either. Edited 15 September, 2021 by suewhistle sin tax 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearsy Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 54 minutes ago, suewhistle said: Bearsy, who allowed _you_ back?!? Did you know there have been sequels to Fifty Shades..? No, I don't why know either. Hi Sue! Nah, I'm just popping by. Steve Grant asked me as a personal favour. He's worried saintsweb is "getting too high brow". I can't afford to get dragged back in though. I'm v.business bear nowadays. No time for lols or for literary researches! It's interest for retired posters to pop by every now and again though to check in on all the old arguments 🙃 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suewhistle Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 Old arguments or old trolls.. some of them are really obsessed about certain subjects, as you can see here. 🙂 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billy the Kidd Posted 15 September, 2021 Share Posted 15 September, 2021 On 30/08/2021 at 17:29, East Kent Saint said: No just posters falling for typical Turkish trolling, you can see it on most threads , don’t feed the troll seems to be something we all keep forgetting. I’m just reading back through this thread and yep, there sure is a theme with of the posters. Maybe someone is lost in their wardrobe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WFTJM89 Posted 20 September, 2021 Share Posted 20 September, 2021 Hi everyone! Did you know that until now Saints were the only top division team in English football without an official LGBT+ Supporters Network? Well, with the help of Pride in Football, Southampton FC, and a few other groups, that's no longer the case. We're aiming to soft-launch with the club as an official supporters group later on in the year with the Rainbow Laces match, but in the mean time, we're really keen to hear from fellow fans who want to work with the club to make matchday experiences safer and more enjoyable for LGBT+ fans, as well as meet fellow LGBT+ fans outside of matchdays at socials and such like. So if you're an LGBT+ Saints fan, or an ally, then pop on over to Twitter and give the Twitter page a follow - and do say hi! 6 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 It's at times like this you wish there was a love emoji in reply to posts. Fantastic news. Can you ask the Saints voice to get a large LGBT+ flag near the away fans like they do at Spurs? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saint_lambden Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 2 hours ago, Turkish said: It's at times like this you wish there was a love emoji in reply to posts. Fantastic news. Can you ask the Saints voice to get a large LGBT+ flag near the away fans like they do at Spurs? It's hilarious how insecure you are. 4 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TWar Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 13 hours ago, WFTJM89 said: Hi everyone! Did you know that until now Saints were the only top division team in English football without an official LGBT+ Supporters Network? Well, with the help of Pride in Football, Southampton FC, and a few other groups, that's no longer the case. We're aiming to soft-launch with the club as an official supporters group later on in the year with the Rainbow Laces match, but in the mean time, we're really keen to hear from fellow fans who want to work with the club to make matchday experiences safer and more enjoyable for LGBT+ fans, as well as meet fellow LGBT+ fans outside of matchdays at socials and such like. So if you're an LGBT+ Saints fan, or an ally, then pop on over to Twitter and give the Twitter page a follow - and do say hi! Great news! Thanks for coming on here and letting us know. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 17 minutes ago, Saint_lambden said: It's hilarious how insecure you are. am i?! Thanks for pointing it out, i never knew! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aintforever Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 On 11/09/2021 at 12:04, hypochondriac said: I think some of the issue I have personally is that some symbols like certain versions of the rainbow flag are actually quite controversial and political. Seriously! Do you realise what a pathetic snowflake you sound like, getting all upset over some gay people waving a rainbow flag. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypochondriac Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 2 hours ago, aintforever said: Seriously! Do you realise what a pathetic snowflake you sound like, getting all upset over some gay people waving a rainbow flag. I'm not upset in the slightest. I haven't given it a second thought after writing this post. Odd that you would think I am. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 2 minutes ago, hypochondriac said: I'm not upset in the slightest. I haven't given it a second thought after writing this post. Odd that you would think I am. he does that. He said i was "banging on about the knee" despite not posting on it for nearly a month and only today because a player has come out and said about it. Then he likes to pretend you're getting upset about it or the latest saying "mental gymnastics". I guess when you just follow what you are told to think you're not used to understanding how others might reason on things or respond. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suewhistle Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 Odd? Probably based on your general posting history. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypochondriac Posted 21 September, 2021 Share Posted 21 September, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, suewhistle said: Odd? Probably based on your general posting history. Hi Sue thanks for taking an interest. Making a small comment about certain forms of the rainbow flag being political (which it is) in one larger post isn't an example of being "so upset." I'm interested in the topic and will discuss it if the topic come up in order to express my opinions but I'm not upset in the slightest. Why would I be? Edited 21 September, 2021 by hypochondriac Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 Just in case anyone had forgotten we now have a permanent reminder 👏👏👏👏 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whelk Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 I noticed they had on the screens yesterday ‘No to Biphobia’ . Genuinely had never heard of that - presumably if you are biphobic you must also be homophobic? Or do they just hate the indecisiveness? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saint_clark Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 10 minutes ago, whelk said: I noticed they had on the screens yesterday ‘No to Biphobia’ . Genuinely had never heard of that - presumably if you are biphobic you must also be homophobic? Or do they just hate the indecisiveness? Honestly I think companies and organisations just make this shit up these days, all in the race to be first in the Oppression Olympics and win as many victimised virtue signalling points as possible. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypochondriac Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 1 hour ago, whelk said: I noticed they had on the screens yesterday ‘No to Biphobia’ . Genuinely had never heard of that - presumably if you are biphobic you must also be homophobic? Or do they just hate the indecisiveness? I absolutely love the gays it's just the bisexuals I can't stand. It's just greedy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lighthouse Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 2 hours ago, whelk said: I noticed they had on the screens yesterday ‘No to Biphobia’ . Genuinely had never heard of that - presumably if you are biphobic you must also be homophobic? Or do they just hate the indecisiveness? It sounds like something you’d see an optician about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloggy saint Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 (edited) 5 hours ago, Turkish said: Just in case anyone had forgotten we now have a permanent reminder 👏👏👏👏 Edited 27 September, 2021 by cloggy saint failed meme Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WFTJM89 Posted 27 September, 2021 Share Posted 27 September, 2021 https://rainbow-saints.mailchimpsites.com/ Our website is now live, along with our membership form. We'd love to hear from any Saints fans who are LGBTQ+ or Allies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRM Posted 28 September, 2021 Share Posted 28 September, 2021 9 hours ago, Saint_clark said: Honestly I think companies and organisations just make this shit up these days, all in the race to be first in the Oppression Olympics and win as many victimised virtue signalling points as possible. I think we must work with the same PR agency as Marcus Rashford. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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