Baj Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going?
Micky Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 In a nutshell - no - it's a free world... But then again - if we were to win 6 - 0, you'd be gutted...!
Saint Martini Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 You shouldn't but my guess is that when the match starts you might start feeling guilty anyway.
Huffton Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 Mate, if I hadn't already bought a ST, there is NO WAY I would be going and wasting money on that crap. AS it is I will be letting Rupert and co know my feelings for the full 90 mins. Why feel guilty about standing up for something you believe in (or don't as the case may be)
Baj Posted 27 December, 2008 Author Posted 27 December, 2008 I was at the Madstad when we won 2-1 and to my recollection thats our last decent performance on a day when Reading barely turned up... I think tomorrow they will be out for revenge and we will be on the end of a drubbing...
Guest Dark Sotonic Mills Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 I feel the same way and I've got a season ticket. The choice between going out in the freezing cold watching a load of cack or staying at home in front of the fire with a nice roast leg of lamb lunch. Not a hard one this time. Oh, and before I'm called all sorts of names, I went to my first Saints match 48 years ago at the age of 6, I've had a season ticket since I was 14 and for a twenty years or so when I could afford it and I didn't have too many family commitments, I went to every match, home and away, including Europe and pre-season friendlies. These days however, there is something fundamentally wrong with the club I have loved for so long.
L1Minus10 Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going? The game will wreck your day whether you go or not. I'm an ST holder but I miss midweek games as I work in Ireland. This year it really hasn't bothered me that I've missed games.
alpine_saint Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going? Not in the slightest.
saint_stevo Posted 27 December, 2008 Posted 27 December, 2008 maybe spend 90mins updating the arcade instead? No way am i going 2morro, and i have nothing stopping me either
Baj Posted 28 December, 2008 Author Posted 28 December, 2008 maybe spend 90mins updating the arcade instead? Spent an hour looking earlier but it seems all the decent places/games charge... cheeky sods, imagine that! charging for a forum!
David Strover Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 You won't feel guilty when the score comes in.....You'd be surprised how short a time it takes before you don't miss the ritual at all.
Fowllyd Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I think you should be directed to a large empty room, holding a large glass of Scotch in one hand and a loaded revolver in the other. When you enter the room, just close the door behind you and do the decent thing. Now then, didn't shooting the f*ck out of that picture of a train make you feel better? I hope so, because watching us play at the moment isn't likely to. The Scotch might though. I'll be going tomorrow, though I have to wonder why; the last thing you should be doing is feeling bad because you're not.
Pat from Poole Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 You won't feel guilty when the score comes in.....You'd be surprised how short a time it takes before you don't miss the ritual at all. Yup. When I hear we've lost it barely registers with me. I just feel sorry for those who are suffering watching the inevitability of relegation.
Saint Fan CaM Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 If I didn't have an ST, I am not sure I would be going. I am wishing I didn't fork out for two tickets to the Man U game now frankly. So no, don't feel guilty - your family are more important I would suggest.
CHAPEL END CHARLIE Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 In normal circumstances a fan should do all they can to support their club , but these are not normal circumstances and to be frank it doesn't even feel like it's our club anymore . When Rupert's gone we can all unite behind 'The New Saints' and start again - but until that happy day no Saints fan should feel the least sense of guilt for refusing to put anymore hard earned money into Rupert Lowe's pockets .
exit2 Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm going to give Lowe some verbal and to meet up with my mates for a few beers before and after the game
explorer saint Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm going because I always go, I've forked out on a ST but really for the first time in years trying to find an excuse not to go. All I can think of is that I will be just as miserabe watching sky sports news just a little more comfortable
lordswoodsaints Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going? not fit to wear the admin shirt imo.:-)
Norm Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Baj, stay home in the warm and play with your (sorry, the kids) DS Lite. I'm staying home and trying to get my Zen mp3 player to work (bloody thing keeps freezing, is it the cold weather or crap software). I really don't want to sit in the cold and be as depressed as I was at the Nottm Forest game. Happy New Year to all Saints fans.
70's Mike Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I feel the same way and I've got a season ticket. The choice between going out in the freezing cold watching a load of cack or staying at home in front of the fire with a nice roast leg of lamb lunch. Not a hard one this time. Oh, and before I'm called all sorts of names, I went to my first Saints match 48 years ago at the age of 6, I've had a season ticket since I was 14 and for a twenty years or so when I could afford it and I didn't have too many family commitments, I went to every match, home and away, including Europe and pre-season friendlies. These days however, there is something fundamentally wrong with the club I have loved for so long. virtually the same as me , my biggest motivation these days is my elder son who is 20 still wants to go
JustMike Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 im the same Baj, for the first weekend in ages im free to go but im not, i cant be bothered with it all at the moment.
Baj Posted 28 December, 2008 Author Posted 28 December, 2008 Thing is, I know that come 1pm ill just say "oh ****ing hell..." and grab my coat and head down... I did that for the forest game, even convinced my poor dad to come with me..
Jesus Reigned Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Not sure if I'm in the minority here, but I find it easier watching Saints lose in the flesh than listening to it on the radio? At least when I see it with my own eyes I haven't got the false hope that's usually built-up by the commentator on Solent. Not going today though.
Andy_Porter Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Not sure if I'm in the minority here, but I find it easier watching Saints lose in the flesh than listening to it on the radio? At least when I see it with my own eyes I haven't got the false hope that's usually built-up by the commentator on Solent. Not going today though. Aye, can't stand listening to us lose on the radio. Felt sorry for my family after the Burnley game. Quite looking forward to today, meeting at the pub in under an hour and no work tomorrow. Reading have brought a decent amount of fans so it could be a decent-ish atmosphere.
bigtonesfc Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I`ll be there,i support Southampton FC,and get kicked in the b*lls every game,but come the next game ive recovered!Shall enjoy abusing Rupes,some concillation!
Michelle Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Why should you feel guilty? If you're not happy with a product, don't pay for it.
lordswoodsaints Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 baj,it is sometimes a difficult thing to support the saints but it is something i was born to do,like my kids i didnt have a choice,my dad was saints mad and he passed this on to me (bastard:-)).it is very difficult at the momnt,especially when the kids are not witnessing any wins or even a goal but i have to keep going in the hope that the good times wil return. you have to do what you think is right,nobody will blame you for not going but im sure the temptation will be too strong to resist.
SaintRobbie Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going? I'm not going Baj. I think you should feel proud of yourself for not supporting Southampton Leisure Holdings FC and do as I am... saving my money for the eventual return of Southampton FC. Hope it's not too long in coming. I will only now attend games where protests require support. Man Utd will see me singing for a change as I sense that will be the biggest protest against Lowe and the plc he stands for in recent years.
red&white4life Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Only going because of the ST, and i wont be going again until we play Donny on the 17th as i am away for the Manure match. I don't blame anyone for not going at the moment, we pay good money only to leave the ground feeling like sh*te. Have a nice day. Col.
Saint_Jim Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Ive been given a free ticket from my work and still cant be arsed to go.
AndyNorthernSaints Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm only going as i'm in Southampton for christmas for a change. Looking forward to meeting up with old mates in the pub before game. Not really looking forward to 3pm.
mprobert Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Its up to you - support your team / don't support it ?
NickG Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm not going Baj. I think you should feel proud of yourself for not supporting Southampton Leisure Holdings FC and do as I am... saving my money for the eventual return of Southampton FC. Hope it's not too long in coming. I will only now attend games where protests require support. Man Utd will see me singing for a change as I sense that will be the biggest protest against Lowe and the plc he stands for in recent years. no offence but think its ridiculous to feel proud about not going. Not saying should feel guilty as its not a responsibility but a hobby/passion and the enjoyment priorities may change. Sunny day, had good morning with kids, people round tonight but looking forward to game on sunny afternoon (although have warned guests that maybe bit grumpy to start with after a defeat!) Can't say as excited as in the past though
Michelle Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Its up to you - support your team / don't support it ? You can support the team without going to games.
SaintRobbie Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 You can support the team without going to games. I know what you mean, but I think you can support your CLUB without going to games... the team would prefer us there. Sorry though guys... I am supporting my Club.
obelisk Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I had planned to go but now the car has decided it doesn't want to. My attendance now depends upon the RAC. Maybe a blessing in disguise.
1976_Child Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I am not going to today's game against Reading. I have a streaming cold and cough and do not fancy a four hour round trip. The club already has my money for this game due to ST and I wouldn't be cheering very loudly due to sore throat. I don't feel guilty as I will be subscribing to Saints TV for the first time to listen to the game on line. So sorry to the team but I am not up to it. Get stuck in and chalk up the second home win of the season. And if there are any anti-lowe chants from the Northam will some one else please shout extra loud to cover my absence. Thanks.
Mr X Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 Tomorrow will be the first game I've not gone to in about 2 years where I have had no barriers to going. I'm married with 2 kids, my wife works every other weekend and I'm usually very busy, I've managed about 7 games this season home and away, but tomorrow I have nothing stopping me going, we've no plans, I have money and time to go, but I just can't be arsed to waste good money on something that will wreck my day... should I feel bad about not going? No way man its your right as a customer not to purhase a poor product. I want to go but cant face walking back to the car feeling like i did after the forest game .....so angry! I would have gone if it was like £5 -£10 pounds a ticket but the best part of £25 to watch that sheite ....no way its just not value for money
TheSaint75 Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm a ST holder and just can't be bothered to see us get a drubbing today, I really feel I'm falling out of love with this club, although hopefully it's just a trial separation!
Mr X Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm a ST holder and just can't be bothered to see us get a drubbing today, I really feel I'm falling out of love with this club, although hopefully it's just a trial separation! Lets hope your not filing for a full club divorce after todays display
funkymojo44 Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 i wouldn't feel guilty at all to be honest, it's your time and money. SFC doesn't come high up the importance scale in my life simply because there are far more important things to invest time in.
View From The Top Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I asked my nipper if he wanted to go today and he said no as he didn't want to see "us" lose again. I'm going to Barnsley but unless there is a change of leadership, management and tactics, I won't be going again this season as it hurts to much to watch my club die.
benjii Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm not bothering and there's nothing stopping me. All my mates who would go (and quite a few of those can't be bothered eithe), I have seen for beers recently so there really does seem like no point. If we had a new manager, mind....
Dalek2003 Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I wish I had go more often, but it is a trek from Norwich. I am very disappointed with the last four years but at least league 1 football will be a new scenario. Yes, i really do think we need to prepare ourselves for next year in League 1.
sun of spain Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm a ST holder and just can't be bothered to see us get a drubbing today, I really feel I'm falling out of love with this club, although hopefully it's just a trial separation! And this just about sums everything up for many Saints supporters,as sad as it may be. We have seen our once great club bought to it's knees,and there seems little that we can do about it ? Staying away is an individuals right,whether it is in protest or just "can't be asked".No one should feel guilty about making that decision,perhaps if enough people did it the powers that be might sit up and take notice (though I doubt it with this shower in charge). :smt089
Jillyanne Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I feel the same way and I've got a season ticket. The choice between going out in the freezing cold watching a load of cack or staying at home in front of the fire with a nice roast leg of lamb lunch. Not a hard one this time. Oh, and before I'm called all sorts of names, I went to my first Saints match 48 years ago at the age of 6, I've had a season ticket since I was 14 and for a twenty years or so when I could afford it and I didn't have too many family commitments, I went to every match, home and away, including Europe and pre-season friendlies. These days however, there is something fundamentally wrong with the club I have loved for so long. I never realised you were so old.
hypochondriac Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 You missed out Baj. It was a good game.
Saint Martini Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 You missed out Baj. It was a good game. No posts during the match. He might have gone anyway.
Chez Posted 28 December, 2008 Posted 28 December, 2008 I'm a ST holder and just can't be bothered to see us get a drubbing today, I really feel I'm falling out of love with this club, although hopefully it's just a trial separation! did you go in the end?
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