Turkish Posted 27 November, 2012 Author Share Posted 27 November, 2012 Just sort of dawned on me over time, despite the fact I was mentally trying to convince myself it wasn't happening. If I ignored it it would go away sort of thing. She still denies it to this day, despite moving in with him within about 3 months of us splitting up. How did you realise though if it was only happening during work hours? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hatch Posted 27 November, 2012 Share Posted 27 November, 2012 texts, FB, all that crap got more and more frequent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raging Bull Posted 27 November, 2012 Share Posted 27 November, 2012 (edited) The saddest thing of all is that all those things said on the wedding day count for bugger all! My sisters about to get divorced cos the cvnt has been and still is knobing some piece of trash 14 years younger than him. Its very hard to see a loved one going through the ringer like this. ........ Edited 27 November, 2012 by Raging Bull Probably shouldn't say that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Golden Balls Posted 28 November, 2012 Share Posted 28 November, 2012 She still denies it to this day, despite moving in with him within about 3 months of us splitting up. Amazing. How stupid do women think we are?! I had a gf that did basically the the same years ago. Was with her for nearly 3 years. I was a bit suspicious of this guy that randomly popped into her life who she saw a lot of. She changed and became very secretive. I asked if she had any feelings for this guy and she flipped out and broke up with me for making such accusations. Less than a week later they were together. I saw her again recently and she still denies that anything ever happened or that there were any feelings before we broke up. Boll0(ks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essruu Posted 28 November, 2012 Share Posted 28 November, 2012 The saddest thing of all is that all those things said on the wedding day count for bugger all! My sisters about to get divorced cos the cvnt has been and still is knobing some piece of trash 14 years younger than him. Its very hard to see a loved one going through the ringer like this. ........ Rule 1 ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raging Bull Posted 28 November, 2012 Share Posted 28 November, 2012 Rule 1 ? Laters bro... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitey Grandad Posted 28 November, 2012 Share Posted 28 November, 2012 Amazing. How stupid do women think we are?! I had a gf that did basically the the same years ago. Was with her for nearly 3 years. I was a bit suspicious of this guy that randomly popped into her life who she saw a lot of. She changed and became very secretive. I asked if she had any feelings for this guy and she flipped out and broke up with me for making such accusations. Less than a week later they were together. I saw her again recently and she still denies that anything ever happened or that there were any feelings before we broke up. Boll0(ks The lady did protest too much, methinks (apologies to Hamlet, Act 3, scene 2) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bucks Saint Posted 2 December, 2012 Share Posted 2 December, 2012 texts, FB, all that crap got more and more frequent. Very sorry to hear, not something i would wish on anyone, having been through it. Glad you have found someone decent now though. Biggest grief for me, money aside, is that I moved away from Soton for my wife (to be, at that stage) and as we have a son, I can't move back for at least another 6-8 years. Otherwise, I am over it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tpbury Posted 2 December, 2012 Share Posted 2 December, 2012 Sounds like we need a mens shed thread. FWIW, turned up my ex's dating ad today. Fact is, I don't really care, hopefully the alimony will go down. Would be gutted to have to keep shelling out to keep her and a new bloke comfortable. Just want the kids to have a nice life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 2 December, 2012 Share Posted 2 December, 2012 I went out with a bird once..who I caught cheating on me...she had a mate called "andrea" on her phone and was getting text (for example) at gone midnight on a weekend....when "andrea" (or alex it was) was ****ed up and wanted to action... I quickly realised and mentally broke up with her but kept it going to to see how much she would lie...... I finally walked when we went to bristol for the day (as she wanted to go shopping)....she nipped into the loo about 6pm in the town centre and I said I would get the car...left her there and text her that she must have been mental if she thought I would not find out.... she is now married to said fella and I have not seen her for over 3 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seaford Saint Posted 2 December, 2012 Share Posted 2 December, 2012 Divorce was the most difficult situation I had ever encountered. Ex wife wanted out, I lost over a stone in a couple of weeks. Got financially taken to the cleaners...just about survived with loans from friends, the late brother in law, a solicitor, carried out the divorce for me for free. I had lots of dates and then hit the jackpot. Its been tough since then for the kids to adjust but everything else is better, I have a soulmate etc. The ex? She has found life difficult and has't moved on. My current wife is capable, confident etc...and is a happy and contented person, something my ex never was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 2 December, 2012 Author Share Posted 2 December, 2012 I went out with a bird once..who I caught cheating on me...she had a mate called "andrea" on her phone and was getting text (for example) at gone midnight on a weekend....when "andrea" (or alex it was) was ****ed up and wanted to action... I quickly realised and mentally broke up with her but kept it going to to see how much she would lie...... I finally walked when we went to bristol for the day (as she wanted to go shopping)....she nipped into the loo about 6pm in the town centre and I said I would get the car...left her there and text her that she must have been mental if she thought I would not find out.... she is now married to said fella and I have not seen her for over 3 years. Excellent work Jamie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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