Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 seems like a good time of year to do so...will save me a few quid i reckon..lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toomer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 seems like a good time of year to do so...will save me a few quid i reckon..lol It could end up costing you a few quid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 no..we are not married or anything.....just will save me xmas prezzies....boooooooooooooooooooooo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weston Super Saint Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 What you save you'll blow on prozzies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 What you save you'll blow on prozzies. not if they have a pimp i wont Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 not if they have a pimp i wont You're right, if they have a pimp, you will blow the money on legal fee's keeping your ass out of jail! Back to the topic though... It does seem a lot of people are splitting up at the moment. I am still unsure what will happen with me and my Mrs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 it went wrong last week...i found old pictures of her ex on her phone (nothing saucy lol) which she said she forgot she had so all week I have been very suspicious... also she was texting a bloke who was under a girls name on her phone...she said because of my suspicious nature this week she felt she had to lie as i would have gone mad even though the texts were to a friend... hmmmmmmmmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 hmmmmmmmmmmm Very. The only time you change a name (especially changing the sex too) on your mobile is if you dont want your other half knowing who you are texting. This would only be a problem if there was something in it. How long have you been with her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Very. The only time you change a name (especially changing the sex too) on your mobile is if you dont want your other half knowing who you are texting. This would only be a problem if there was something in it. How long have you been with her? 3 months or so.. she said because i was so suspicious because of the pictures i found on her phone (which are gone now) she felt that if I knew she was texting a bloke (who is a mate she said) then I would have gone mad....... not too sure myself..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 3 months or so.. she said because i was so suspicious because of the pictures i found on her phone (which are gone now) she felt that if I knew she was texting a bloke (who is a mate she said) then I would have gone mad....... not too sure myself..... Nope, and to be fair, if you have only been with her 3 months then not a great deal has been lost (other than feelings). There is a difference about keeping pictures of your ex on your phone to texting a mate, irrelevant of the sex of said mate. I have been with mine for 6 years now, we have a house and were meant to be getting married next September. Not sure if this is going to happen now. She wants to postpone the wedding, but I am not happy to do this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott_saints Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 3 months or so.. she said because i was so suspicious because of the pictures i found on her phone (which are gone now) she felt that if I knew she was texting a bloke (who is a mate she said) then I would have gone mad....... not too sure myself..... Nah I wouldn't buy that one mate. Sounds like the sort of excuse a man can get a woman to believe, but not the other way round!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Nah I wouldn't buy that one mate. Sounds like the sort of excuse a man can get a woman to believe, but not the other way round!! Thats what I was thinking! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 so...regardless how she thought i would react...texting a bloke who is under a birds name is out of order....even though she says they are mates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesaint sfc Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Been in a similar situation myself. That turned out to be another bloke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyLass Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 so...regardless how she thought i would react...texting a bloke who is under a birds name is out of order....even though she says they are mates Sounds dodgy to me. If they're just mates & there's nothing in it then why do it ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott_saints Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 so...regardless how she thought i would react...texting a bloke who is under a birds name is out of order....even though she says they are mates If he was just as much of a mate as all her other male mates, then he wouldn't be under a girls name on her phone. Or have all her male friends got female names in her phonebook?? Just my opinion TDD, but looks a bit fisheh to me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 i think it is a bit suspect..... she maintains that she is sorry for lying but because she felt that i would have had a right go that a friend was texting her to 'keep her chin up' and was male...as we have been going through a real dodgy patch in the week.. one of the text sent to her i saw two nightsb ago was..."night u x" at half 10 at night.... hmmmmmmmmmmmmm is she telling thruth and lied to avoid confrontation or is shw being a slut? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scudamore Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Been in a similar situation myself. That turned out to be another bloke. Did "her" adam's apple not give it away? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Did "her" adam's apple not give it away? i lol'd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott_saints Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 is she telling thruth and lied to avoid confrontation or is shw being a slut? Neither. I reckon he IS a mate, but more tha just a "normal" mate and she obviously wants to have good ol' flirt with him hence disguising his name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Neither. I reckon he IS a mate, but more tha just a "normal" mate and she obviously wants to have good ol' flirt with him hence disguising his name. that is probably what it is...exactly what i was thinking... to be fair, that does not bother me too much...but what did is the lies....granted i have been out of order in the last week and she may have a point in saying she felt it was easier to lie thank risk me having a pop.. what makes it all strange is that until I saw those old pictures everythingwas superb....how quickly things can change... life is so much easier, especially in my job being on your own..:smt045 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 She does like someone else. Even if she says she wont do it again, Give it a few weeks and she'll be back txting again. Or get hold of his number, Track him down and kick him in. oh, i got the number... mate works for a certain security service in london and a call to him and i could find out all sorts with that number....but that is something i wont/dont want to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rory Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 I personally wouldn't give a f*ck as I'd probably be doing the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott_saints Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 I personally wouldn't give a f*ck as I'd probably be doing the same. Yeah, but we're allowed though!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Yeah, but we're allowed though!! We have our own rulez! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essruu Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 I have been with mine for 6 years now, we have a house and were meant to be getting married next September. Not sure if this is going to happen now. She wants to postpone the wedding, but I am not happy to do this. FFS wake up... You've been together for six years, you're a boring git and she's fed up of being with you when all you do is spend your time posting on stupid internet forums and playing computer games. Jesus H Christ, you're even spending your time telling complete strangers on the internet all the finer details of your relationship, what went wrong, what is happening etc., when you should be spending time talking to her and working through it. And, not just on one thread, but on every thread that you can possibly mention on it - it's as if nobody else is allowed to have relationship problems without you going one better by explaining yet again just how unloveable you are, how sh1t your relationship is, how your girlfriend doesn't love you and how repulsive she finds the idea of getting lumbered with you for life. FWIW I think your relationship is doomed anyway; the clues are there: 1. You spend all of your time geeking it up 2. You're a lazy cvnt. 3. She moved out of a home she has with you because she'd rather be with her family than you 4. She doesn't want to marry you 5. If she moves back in it'll only be because she wants her share of any equity or the contents. 6.You're probably fat and ugly. 7.She's probably cheating on you because you're rubbish in bed. Glad to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ericofarabia Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 I personally wouldn't give a f*ck as I'd probably be doing the same. Didn't have you marked down as somebody who'd be sending texts to a bloke with a women's name ... oh well we live and learn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 FFS wake up... You've been together for six years, you're a boring git and she's fed up of being with you when all you do is spend your time posting on stupid internet forums and playing computer games. Jesus H Christ, you're even spending your time telling complete strangers on the internet all the finer details of your relationship, what went wrong, what is happening etc., when you should be spending time talking to her and working through it. And, not just on one thread, but on every thread that you can possibly mention on it - it's as if nobody else is allowed to have relationship problems without you going one better by explaining yet again just how unloveable you are, how sh1t your relationship is, how your girlfriend doesn't love you and how repulsive she finds the idea of getting lumbered with you for life. FWIW I think your relationship is doomed anyway; the clues are there: 1. You spend all of your time geeking it up 2. You're a lazy cvnt. 3. She moved out of a home she has with you because she'd rather be with her family than you 4. She doesn't want to marry you 5. If she moves back in it'll only be because she wants her share of any equity or the contents. 6.You're probably fat and ugly. 7.She's probably cheating on you because you're rubbish in bed. Glad to help. Probably. I'd like to point out though that I do the main part of my 'geeking' it up as you call it, when I am at work. Ergo, not with her. You have taken your 'geeking it up' to a whole other level, setting up your own forum so you can have lots of little followers and publisise your racial views pretending to be all hard and stuff. Yes I am explaining myself again. No I may not 'get it' and yes you are a c*nt. Glad to help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essruu Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Just let her go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hatch Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Celibacy. It's the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 blah blah blah, lots of 'look at me' sh!t And you're another one in the Wilts/Tiggs/Atticcus bracket. Do you ever come onto a thread to contribute toward the actual thread? It seems every time you come onto SWF, it is litterally to spite people, take the **** out of what others have said! You may call it b-anter, and think people like you, in a similar way that the school bully thinks he has a lot of friends. B-anter is different, what you do is just c*nty. Why bother coming on here if it 'bores you' and you dont like the people who post? Why not stick to your own little racial world where you are king of a forum which struggles to get more than 10-15 posts a day? I think you are a very insecure person Ess, its the only rational explanation for it. You hide behind your own insecurities by mocking others. As a taxi driver, Im sure you are a fairly worldly person, speaking to a lot of different people on a regular basis, so why not contribute to threads rather than waste you 3 posts a day abusing people? You may find then, that people take you seriously and actually like you (cue your comment 'oh noes, people on innernets dont like me'). But the fact is, very little people actually enjoy being disliked. And you know nothing about me, I chose to let people know what I want them to know. And if it seems I am divulging my personal life on the innernet, then maybe have you considered I want other opinions? If you do not care to give your opinion, or indeed even read my post, then dont. F*ck off back to b-anter. Glad to help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Just let her go. Maybe I dont want to? Maybe, I love her and know she loves me. Maybe we are stuck in a rut, because I went from being completely happy in a job I loved earning a lot of money to now not being as happy as I have had to change industry and earn substantionally less than I did, working longer hours, further away. Maybe this is the reason I have been coming back from work and vegging out, and realising it is not doing any good for me/her/us and that I need to get back on track, will infact solve all the problems. Maybe this is why she hasnt left me and I wont leave her. Maybe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norwaysaint Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 But the fact is, very little people actually enjoy being disliked. Can you back this up? I've not heard this before. Do you mean as in fairies and leprechauns or as in Ronnie Corbett? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Can you back this up? I've not heard this before. Do you mean as in fairies and leprechauns or as in Ronnie Corbett? lol. Definitely Ronnie Corbett Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hatch Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 In the whole history of this forum, in it's many guises, has anyone ever had a go at Essruu without mentioning what his job is. I think not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scudamore Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 In the whole history of this forum, in it's many guises, has anyone ever had a go at Essruu without mentioning what his job is. I think not. What does he do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essruu Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 You sound really desperate. Maybe she just thinks she's seen enough of what you're about to realise that she doesn't want to live with you, let alone suck you off or spend the rest of her life with you. Maybe you are just trying to convince yourself that she hasn't 'left you', because you just aren't willing to accept the truth. Deep down I think you realise it's over. Maybe she just hasn't found the courage to say those final words of "Look, it's over. You bore me, I don't love you and there's no way I want to spend another day with you let alone the rest of my life, now please just let me go, you're scaring me now"... it's probably hard for her to say those words because she just sees you crying and begging her not to leave you. If you end up marrying her then you're mental. She WANTS to NOT get married to you; you say you're not happy to let her not. I'll tell you what - why don't you just beg and plead with her, make her feel bad and sorry for you and have her finally relent and agree to marry you after all (against her better judgement). That sounds like a recipe for a long and successful marriage with no resentment whatsoever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 You sound really desperate. Maybe she just thinks she's seen enough of what you're about to realise that she doesn't want to live with you, let alone suck you off or spend the rest of her life with you. Maybe you are just trying to convince yourself that she hasn't 'left you', because you just aren't willing to accept the truth. Deep down I think you realise it's over. Maybe she just hasn't found the courage to say those final words of "Look, it's over. You bore me, I don't love you and there's no way I want to spend another day with you let alone the rest of my life, now please just let me go, you're scaring me now"... it's probably hard for her to say those words because she just sees you crying and begging her not to leave you. If you end up marrying her then you're mental. She WANTS to NOT get married to you; you say you're not happy to let her not. I'll tell you what - why don't you just beg and plead with her, make her feel bad and sorry for you and have her finally relent and agree to marry you after all (against her better judgement). That sounds like a recipe for a long and successful marriage with no resentment whatsoever. Yes I am ever so desperate Im currently crying over my laptop in the middle of the office because you have hit the nail on the head :roll: She is not sad enough to stay with someone out of pity, like I am not, and her wanting to postpone the wedding is maybe because she thinks its not just her who is unhappy at the moment? Maybe arranging the whole wedding is stressful for her? Maybe you know nothing at all, but being a taxi driver, you seem to have a god given right to think you are also a shrink? If you knew me/her/us, I may listen to what you have to say, and although I have voiced my situation on here possibly looking for opinions, your opinion holds no weight with me because I cannot take a word of what you say seriously. Does it bother you people view you as a joke? I know for all my spamming and Crouchiesque posts I have a serious side, where I can discuss things like a grown adult. I am yet to see that you have anything near a side like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 In the whole history of this forum, in it's many guises, has anyone ever had a go at Essruu without mentioning what his job is. I think not. Maybe because generally taxi drivers = c*nts. I have only met a few who seem 'normal' and maybe people hope Ess can be 'normal' but he fails time on time and reverts back to the taxi driver = c*nt Ess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hatch Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 What does he do? marriage counsellor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pancake Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 He's not my favourite of posters, but I think Ess has firmly hit many nails on many heads right 'ere... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 He's not my favourite of posters, but I think Ess has firmly hit many nails on many heads right 'ere... I what way? Again, I am chosing to divulge what I want to, so how can you make an honest opinion with limited information? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 just had a text from her... she said she really hopes we can make things work but the last week has given her a few worries etc....she wants to see how we get on together this weekend.. sounds fair enough...right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scudamore Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 I what way? Again, I am chosing to divulge what I want to, so how can you make an honest opinion with limited information? Honestly? You're relationship is doomed... I know a girl called Amie though...maybe you should drop her a mail... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 just had a text from her... she said she really hopes we can make things work but the last week has given her a few worries etc....she wants to see how we get on together this weekend.. sounds fair enough...right? Sounds like an short term identical version of whats going on with me mate. Although apparently Ess and Pancake, think I am a sad desperate loser who has a firm grip of the ankle of his girlfriend who is walking out the door! :smt042 Mr Mrs has apologised for blowing things out of proportion on the weekend, admitting she has bottled everything up and it shouldnt have got that bad. She moved back in as she missed me and wants to stay together. At the moment, I am undecided if it will work, which is why my head is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Honestly? You're relationship is doomed... Maybe, maybe not, only time will tell. However at the moment, we both want it to work, so we are trying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saint1977 Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Maybe because generally taxi drivers = c*nts. I have only met a few who seem 'normal' and maybe people hope Ess can be 'normal' but he fails time on time and reverts back to the taxi driver = c*nt Ess Sorry this is a bit off-topic but a few years ago a mate of mine was getting a taxi home and was talking about some recent comments made by Richard Chorley and Perry McMillan. He said "that Perry McMillan is such a cvnt", and then looked at the driver's ID badge....you've guessed it, the badge said Perry McMillan. Not unsurprisngly, the rest of the journey was rather quiet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notnowcato Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 (edited) Just let her go. Wasted post IMO - see your / you're / ur other two for how it should be done on the Muppet. No offence INS, having been through what you are going through I know where you are at. The signals don't seem good. You are in a decent position, I was 5 years older than you are now when the shet hit the fan. It really opened my eyes and I grabbed singledom with both hands (fnarr fnarr) and enjoyed it. Best thing you can do is reflect upon what you've have had and what you now see as important in "the" relationship in your future and don't settle for second best. Most of all enjoy the hunt! Edited 20 November, 2008 by notnowcato Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 20 November, 2008 Author Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Honestly? You're relationship is doomed... I know a girl called Amie though...maybe you should drop her a mail... she will meet you at turnstile A Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 20 November, 2008 Share Posted 20 November, 2008 Sorry this is a bit off-topic but a few years ago a mate of mine was getting a taxi home and was talking about some recent comments made by Richard Chorley and Perry McMillan. He said "that Perry McMillan is such a cvnt", and then looked at the driver's ID badge....you've guessed it, the badge said Perry McMillan. Not unsurprisngly, the rest of the journey was rather quiet! And expensive I would imagine! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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