why do you people tolerate this sort of thing

[norwaysaint]

No I was the one who said that seperated fathers should keep there nose out of the kids education and allow the ex partners new partner to take care of the new family unit.

 

You are going to give the staff room a laugh!

 

Most dads whould not be so involved in a childs education,are you seperated from your wife by any chance?

 

No you said most dads don't get involved in their child's education, which is not actually true. most dads take a very active interest in said education.

[AwaySaint1]

 

He is speaking English, his native tongue. Don't get angry just because he can speak it properly and you struggle.

 

It's not "lawyer speak" it's just the correct expression.

 

OH I see,so most people in Southampton say "said person" when referring to someone.

 

Sorry my mistake.

[Crouchie's Lawyer]

No I was the one who said that seperated fathers should keep there nose out of the kids education and allow the ex partners new partner to take care of the new family unit.

 

So im guessing you are the 'new' partner and not the actual father.

 

Figures.

 

Its none of your business if the real father takes a keen interest in his childs education. Infact I would encourage the father to still take an interest. If he doesnt, its not really being a loving caring father.

[Crouchie's Lawyer]

OH I see,so most people in Southampton say "said person" when referring to someone.

 

Sorry my mistake.

 

No its just an expression.

 

Its a reference to what you are talking about.

[Window Cleaner]

So im guessing you are the 'new' partner and not the actual father.

 

Figures.

 

Its none of your business if the real father takes a keen interest in his childs education. Infact I would encourage the father to still take an interest. If he doesnt, its not really being a loving caring father.

 

 

My kids quite like me actually, I'm quite pleased they've gone off to Uni though.

[AwaySaint1]

So im guessing you are the 'new' partner and not the actual father.

 

Figures.

 

Its none of your business if the real father takes a keen interest in his childs education. Infact I would encourage the father to still take an interest. If he doesnt, its not really being a loving caring father.

 

WTF! your loser radar is miles off,I have only been and still am married to the same person with 2 sons both mine.

 

I just think seperated fathers should crawl under a stone and leave the kids alone to learn "we dont like Daddy because hes a loser".

 

Norway saint I apologise,I should never of called into question your judgment.

 

I now remember you are the reinder loving member of the Norwegian super-high-IQ Society Menstruate who got over 800 in your PMT exam.

[AwaySaint1]

Norway you have just outed yourself.

 

I now know who you are

 

Lets look at the facts:

 

You are very good at reading what people post.

 

Your level of languages is very good.

 

You support the guys who climb on roofs and hang around chimneys(harriet harman etc).

 

You live in Norway.

 

You love children.

 

Your a saint through and through.

 

 

Are you Father christmas ?

 

 

p.s I wrote to you in the early 70,s asking for ted mcdougal's autograph and never got it you c*nt!

[Crouchie's Lawyer]

WTF! your loser radar is miles off,I have only been and still am married to the same person with 2 sons both mine.

 

I just think seperated fathers should crawl under a stone and leave the kids alone to learn "we dont like Daddy because hes a loser".

 

Norway saint I apologise,I should never of called into question your judgment.

 

I now remember you are the reinder loving member of the Norwegian super-high-IQ Society Menstruate who got over 800 in your PMT exam.

 

Apologies if I got it wrong, however your 'loser radar' as you call it, is miles wrong with your thoughts on seperated fathers 'crawling under a stone and leaving their kids to learn'

 

Say that to St Lard and see how far you get.

[Window Cleaner]

Norway you have just outed yourself.

 

I now know who you are

 

Lets look at the facts:

 

You are very good at reading what people post.

 

Your level of languages is very good.

 

You support the guys who climb on roofs and hang around chimneys(harriet harman etc).

 

You live in Norway.

 

You love children.

 

Your a saint through and through.

 

 

Are you Father christmas ?

 

 

p.s I wrote to you in the early 70,s asking for ted mcdougal's autograph and never got it you c*nt!

 

Father Christmas lives in Finland, he no longer does football or world peace related requests, preferring to leave these to doubtful financiers and NGO's.

[Kadeem Hardison]

Keep going AwaySaint1. I have not enjoyed this sort of idiocy on a thread since I was allowed to post regularly.

[jeff leopard]

You're all sounding like reactionary/right wing/sun reading old women.

 

A riot at a school = the most fun these kids will ever have in their lives!

 

What kind of protest doesn't turn into a riot, a ghey one, that's what.

 

And the best thing, so many kids were involved that its going to be incredibly hard for the school to punish anyone. If they go for the ring-leaders to make an example of them then their parents will appeal and probably sue the school.

 

Riot, the unbeatable high.

[Saintandy666]

Remember when there was a sort of protest kind thing at my school. Most of the people didn't go to lessons and many ran around setting fire alarms off. I remember a hundred odd just ran out of school. It was quite entertaining to be honest.

[Kadeem Hardison]

Did you cry?

[Bentley]

So not much happened eh?

http://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/3777024.Parents_must_stop_any_repeat_of_school_rampage

 

Erm, yes, I did just say they over-exaggerated. It's a school for Christs sake. Any "witnesses" they interviewed were probably kids, and kids don't let their imaginations run off away with themselves, do they?

[Thorpe-le-Saint]

You're all sounding like reactionary/right wing/sun reading old women.

 

A riot at a school = the most fun these kids will ever have in their lives!

 

What kind of protest doesn't turn into a riot, a ghey one, that's what.

 

And the best thing, so many kids were involved that its going to be incredibly hard for the school to punish anyone. If they go for the ring-leaders to make an example of them then their parents will appeal and probably sue the school.

 

Riot, the unbeatable high.

 

Their parents will appeal, the school will have CCTV evidence (if they're anything like the schools up here in Essex) to hand, take it to the LEA who will step in and the parents won't have a leg to stand on.

[equalizer]

Southampton....second rate deprived city Fast becoming a business Ghost Town,,,Most firms ether jacking there hand in or moving South east along the coast to much greener pastors,

Southampton.....voted one of the most violent places to live Full of straw sucking yokels and more recently a large community of eastern block desirables,

Southampton,,,,,,Chav central soon to be renamed Sin City, on account of having the largest under age unand unmarried muvers in the uk.

 

Portsmouth is an island for one reason. Not to keep us in But keep you lot out! HTH;)

 

Pompey= Chav scum who lose their virinity at 12(probably to her father or brother) who drink and smoke aged 13 with their unemployed mothers blessing!

http://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/3776835.Mum_rewards_teenage_daughter_s_behaviour_with_cigarettes/

[equalizer]

WTF! your loser radar is miles off,I have only been and still am married to the same person with 2 sons both mine.

 

I just think seperated fathers should crawl under a stone and leave the kids alone to learn "we dont like Daddy because hes a loser".

Norway saint I apologise,I should never of called into question your judgment.

 

I now remember you are the reinder loving member of the Norwegian super-high-IQ Society Menstruate who got over 800 in your PMT exam.

 

I'm guessing here but does the number 1 in your screen name represent your IQ?

[doublesaint]

No I was the one who said that seperated fathers should keep there nose out of the kids education and allow the ex partners new partner to take care of the new family unit.

 

Well I would agree with you if the separated fathers had your spelling ability, it would be a shame to inflict them with your stupidity. As a separated father myself, I take it as a parental and moral responsiblity to take an interest in the educational needs of my children and continue to do so, along with my ex wife, her partner and my girlfriend.

[Mao Cap]

This thread title is fantastic.

 

"Boo, shame, down with this sort of thing"

[doublesaint]

"I'm 25 and I was disciplined as a child. Not too strictly, however, I knew where the line was. If I ever overstepped this, my mum or dad would be there with a wooden spoon to punish me. They wouldnt clobber me until I were black and blue, could bearly breath and needed 4 weeks intensive care in hospital, just a good ol' smack across my ars£. I learnt this way to respect my elders. The gov't have come along with their namby pamby 'no smacking' rule and consequently, kids just get shouted at (at best). No wonder respect is waining and consequently, kids are pushing the boundaries further and further.

 

IMO the gov't should be encouraging disciplining kids (parents only), within reason obviously, but a lot more respect would come back and I think soceity would benefit more from it."

 

So you are advocating that the government allows assault on children to be legalised, if parents have to resort to hitting children to get their point across then they are not doing a very good job of parenting, my 3 children have only ever had a 'slight tap' when babies, for putting their hands or fingers near the fire or electrical sockets, as they were too young to understand at that time. Since then they have never been hit and are grateful for that as they sit and contemplate their life in the young offenders institution.

Edited 22 October, 2008 by doublesaint
can't quote properly....

[jawillwill]

"I'm 25 and I was disciplined as a child. Not too strictly, however, I knew where the line was. If I ever overstepped this, my mum or dad would be there with a wooden spoon to punish me. They wouldnt clobber me until I were black and blue, could bearly breath and needed 4 weeks intensive care in hospital, just a good ol' smack across my ars£. I learnt this way to respect my elders. The gov't have come along with their namby pamby 'no smacking' rule and consequently, kids just get shouted at (at best). No wonder respect is waining and consequently, kids are pushing the boundaries further and further.

 

IMO the gov't should be encouraging disciplining kids (parents only), within reason obviously, but a lot more respect would come back and I think soceity would benefit more from it.

"

 

So you are advocating that the government allows assault on children to be legalised, if parents have to resort to hitting children to get their point across then they are not doing a very good job of parenting, my 3 children have only ever had a 'slight tap' when babies, for putting their hands or fingers near the fire or electrical sockets, as they were too young to understand at that time. Since then they have never been hit and are grateful for that as they sit and contemplate their life in the young offenders institution.

 

 

Please don't take this the wrong way, but I've done what I felt I needed to do and called the social services.

[norwaysaint]

It's funny that Awaysaint began the debate about judging people for their use of language.

 

It's clear that people do indeed judge others by the language they use. Nobody else thought the worse of Ponty. Quite a few people have drawn conclusions about Awaysaint though....

[Thedelldays]

"

 

So you are advocating that the government allows assault on children to be legalised, if parents have to resort to hitting children to get their point across then they are not doing a very good job of parenting, my 3 children have only ever had a 'slight tap' when babies, for putting their hands or fingers near the fire or electrical sockets, as they were too young to understand at that time. Since then they have never been hit and are grateful for that as they sit and contemplate their life in the young offenders institution.

 

 

Please don't take this the wrong way, but I've done what I felt I needed to do and called the social services.

 

 

 

lol.....what a leftie..."assault"...lol

[jeff leopard]

Their parents will appeal, the school will have CCTV evidence (if they're anything like the schools up here in Essex) to hand, take it to the LEA who will step in and the parents won't have a leg to stand on.

 

It will be facinating to see how it pans out. Hopefullythe local media will follow the story through.

[Kadeem Hardison]

Please don't take this the wrong way, but I've done what I felt I needed to do and called the social services.

 

 

 

lol.....what a leftie..."assault"...lol

 

lol good one lol yeh lol. Lol.

[doublesaint]

Please don't take this the wrong way, but I've done what I felt I needed to do and called the social services.

 

 

 

lol.....what a leftie..."assault"...lol

 

Nothing to do with political views, if you hit an adult it is assault, so why different with a child? I am not meaning a 'smack' as such, but for example the people you see sometimes outside basically leathering into their kids and basically taking out their frustrations on the child. If you hit your children, then they in turn think it is ok to hit theirs in future. There is no need for it, I have raised 3 children and never had to resort to hitting them.

[Deano6]

It's funny that Awaysaint began the debate about judging people for their use of language.

 

It's clear that people do indeed judge others by the language they use. Nobody else thought the worse of Ponty. Quite a few people have drawn conclusions about Awaysaint though....

 

Interesting to see said person has kept very quiet of late.