Valerie Wheeler Rest in peace..

[saintalan]

So sorry Darren, lost my Mum in April this year, it's a sad time.

 

May your Mum Rest in Peace.

 

Alan

[Gator]

Hi Daren

 

Regretfully, i've not had the pleasure of meeting either you or your dear mum but have been an intrigued spectator to your posts explaining your thoughts and frustrations during the past years.

 

I'd like to pass on my sincerest wishes to you both. You were obviously very close and your story is a benchmark for all wishing to find peace with family. Your posts have hit a cord with me and certainly helped to improve on my relationships and to be more thankful for the time we all share.

 

In my thoughts

 

Mark

[hamster]

Don't know you personally Daren, the strength that you need to come through this will come from the memory of your Mum. Mum's are always with us, in our hearts and memories and in the darkest night she will come to you, I promise you that Daren.

 

God bless you mate.

[SOTONS EAST SIDE]

So sorry to hear that Daren. RIP Mrs Wheeler

[Pilchards]

Sorry to hear the sad news about your mum, met her just once and the passion she had for Saints was truly amazing back then.

She will no doubt join the great army of Saints that will welcome her like we are one big family.

RIP Valerie and Daren you will find the strength when the going gets tough as that's what mum's do even a million miles away.

[SNOWY]

RIP Valerie. Condolences to Daren and family.

Edited 14 September, 2010 by SNOWY

[Ohio Saint]

My most sincere condolences. Hold on to all those memories. They are precious.

[marcsfc]

my condolences to all your family and friends.

[Minty]

Daren, as I said elsewhere, I'll always remember the banter between your mum and visiting reserve team managers at Staplewood... and especially Lawrie Sanchez, who your mum managed to wind up an absolute treat. Always makes me smile remembering that night. Always armed with the coffee and the Kit-kat's too if I remember rightly.

 

A top, top lady who always made me smile, which is how I'll always remember her, and I'm sure you will too.

 

Rest in peace Valerie.

[egg]

Very sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

 

As others have said stay strong and hold onto your fond memories.

 

RIP Valerie.

[.comsaint]

My sincere sympathies Daren to you & your family for the loss of your dear mum.

 

Roll on the day when clever humans can finally eradicate this filthy vile disease.

 

RIP Mrs Wheeler - one of our own & that's always a sad loss.

[EastleighSoulBoy]

Sincere condolences Daren. R.I.P. Mrs. Wheeler

[Teddy Nutkins]

Sad news, Daren, thoughts are with you and your family.

[Foxstone]

Sincere condolences on your sad loss.

[surrey1saint]

Very sad Darren,my thoughts are with your family and friends.

 

I lost my Mum to cancer many years ago,so know what you are feeling.RIP Valerie.

[Master Bates]

So so sorry fella, RIP x

[Jeff Le Taxi]

RIP Valerie ...............so sad

[Wopper]

You come across as a nice bloke Darren I bet your mum was proud of you.

[Son of Bob]

Condolences to you and all your family Daren. RIP.

[dellgirl]

So sorry for your loss,that dreadfrul illness takes so many we love,there are a lot of good people up there to look after her and she will always be watching over you , Remember the good times. Big hug .

[ladysaint]

Val was a lovely lady, once you met her you would never forget her, always had this big beaming smile on her face and never moaned or complained. I was privileged enough to sit next to her at SMS and will never forget her, RIP Val you are the biggest Saint in heaven.

[Secret Site Agent]

Condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Mother. I lost mine 5 years ago so I understand you pain.

[BUCKINGHAMSAINT]

RIP VW

 

Thinking of you Daren mate :-)

[Petersfield Saint]

Sincerest condolences Daren; very sorry for your loss

[maltasaints]

RIP Mrs Wheeler, Another Saint in Heaven.

[OldNick]

My thoughts are with you Daren.

[rooney]

Condolences to you and your family. You will be very sad now but as time passes, there will be many happy memories to reflect on.

[steveo]

Having Lost my Father 3 years ago, I know how you feel.

 

Condolences to you and your family RIP.

[saint_mears]

met val many a time when i was knee high when she was picking up darens brother form school over thirty years ago now.

 

Lovely lady and i hope you can take some comfort in that the pain has now gone.

[randyapollo]

very sorry to hear this.i lost my father recently so know the sadness you are feeling.RIP

[INFLUENCED.COM]

Sincere Condolences to you and your family, RIP Mrs Wheeler.

[100%Red&White]

Most of us wouldn't have known her personally but many would have bought a 'Beautiful South' outside the Dell from Daren's mum.

 

Best wishes.

[Norm]

So sorry to read of your sad loss. Sincere condolences Daren.

Norm

[Saint Keith]

RIP Valerie. I met her a few times when I used to help Daren sell the Beautiful South. lovely lady. condolences

[Redondo Saint]

Sorry to learn of your loss.

 

Always remember the good times you had.

[stuey]

Brings some perspective to the events lately, some things are more important than football. Sincerest condolences Darren,

 

RIP Mrs Wheeler, always remember Wembley!

[Kevtherev]

Sincere condolences Daren, from a fellow saints fan.

[theyin]

Less than a month now to the first anniversary of my Mum's passing so I know how you feel Daren. I can only add to the sincere condolences to you and your family and offer a little of my experience this past 12 months. It's a strange time ahead, dealing with everything that comes with someones passing but hopefully soon you'll find yourself having a word with Mum at times, chuckling at something that reminds you of her and of course those, 'wish Mum was here moments', mine was my wedding a few weeks back. They stay with us even though they're gone. You seem to have a whole lot of great times with your Mum stored up in the old grey matter, they're what matters now. Be strong for the rest of the family but allow yourself time for you. That's when you can best appreciate her. I'm sure say she would rather you remember the good times and the pain of her passing will in time, be lessened

[saintscottofthenortham]

Very sorry to hear of your loss Daren. I can only offer my deepest sympathy and echo some of the fantastic posts that have come before me. Once a Saint, Always a Saint. R.I.P Mrs Wheeler.

[scotty]

My sincere condolences, and sympathy at such a difficult time. Rest in peace Valerie.

[East Leake Saint]

Daren, please accept my condolences. I have lost a young brother and a young sister in law in recent years, so I understand what you're going through. Whilst the pain of loss is hard to forget, time does allow the fond memories to take a place in your heart and mind. Take care, and RIP Valerie. East Leake Saint.

[Sergei Gotsmanov]

Very very sad for you. It must be a terrible time.

[dickyhale]

RIP, things like this make me so upset, i remember losing one of my best friends not so long ago called Sam Cutler, he was 13 at the time

[Corporate Ho]

Sorry to hear your news Daren

 

Sincere condolences and RIP Mrs W

[nickfinks]

Puts things into perspective this does. WIFV.

 

My thoughts are with you and your family.

[sir woody]

I hope your ok daren, sorry about your mum. My best wishes to you and your family.

[Leicestersaint]

Very sorry to hear this - many condolences to you and your family.

[Charlie2008]

Best wishes mate.

 

From the Devon Seven.

 

xxxxxxx

[hasper57saint]

Sincere Condolences Darren to you and your family.We know exactly how you feel.

[Toomer]

Daren has written a very fitting tribute to his mum in The Pink where he also said he would like to raise £1m for cancer research, having lost a two members of my family to both cancer and a cancer related illness I would be pleased to offer both my help and support to Daren in any way I could. I am sure that many of the people that post on TSW would be only to willing to support any event they could as well.