Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Is it frowned upon? Is it acceptable if he is not a mate? Is it unacceptable if he is a mate? What are your views on the subject? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colinjb Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Frown upon it? I certainly would, especially if the guy concerned is a mate. There are some bridges you do not cross and that is one of them. If there really is something between 'you' (I assume this is about a situation you are currently in, appologies if i'm wrong) and the girl. And if you are not hurting anyone close to you by getting together with her and the prior relationship ending then it is still dodgy, but not terrible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedAndWhite91 Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Massive no if it is a mate's girlfriend. If it isn't a mate's bird then it's fine. Especially if he is a stupid wannabe gangsta with a stupid name. It's more than fine IMO, and fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 In my humble opinion the she is fair game if you don't know the bloke, if you know the bloke but not really mates then it depends what he is like, if he is a tit then it's fine. The only no in my opinion is mates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pancake Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dronskisaint Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken. +1 Stealing usually denotes removal of property or ideas without the owner's permission. Try explaining to a girlfriend or wife that she is your property & I think you'll get a fairly graphic answer to your own question! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastleighSoulBoy Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 How do you deal with the issue of the 'Ex' getting a little too up close and personal with you about it? Stranger or not. Would you be happy with a total stranger stealing your girlfriend? Just thoughts that come from the initial question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hatch Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 All women are slags Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 All women are slags Fair comment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldNick Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 The only no in my opinion is mates. so there is no 'No's' then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 so there is no 'No's' then I have lots of friends. They are all children though, which is why I said no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saint_bert Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Massive no no if its a mate. Massive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitey Grandad Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Out of interest, why do you ask DBP? Is it on behalf of a friend, or do you have something in mind? Perhaps you are thinking about a career in politics? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mickn Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 How do you stand with not stealing her but borrowing her a few times? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Out of interest, why do you ask DBP? Is it on behalf of a friend, or do you have something in mind? Perhaps you are thinking about a career in politics? Just something I have always wondered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldNick Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Just something I have always wondered. or been thinking about doing Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitey Grandad Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Just something I have always wondered. Wash your mind out with soap and water! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atticus Finch of Maycomb Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Is it frowned upon? Is it acceptable if he is not a mate? Is it unacceptable if he is a mate? What are your views on the subject? I find it unlikely that a guy like you, Stu, is ever going to be in the position to have a mate, girlfriend or both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiltshire Saint Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 I think Stu wrote "girlfriend" when he meant to write "dinner" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barney Trubble Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 As long as I get what i want, then she can **** who she wants. As long as it doesn't affect me getting my sack emptied then I wouldn't be too worried. If it's a live in partner or married, then the rules of engagement change of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
St Marco Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 I think if she is married or got kids etc then should be a total no. Don't be a home wrecker as that is just lame. But if they are not happy in the relationship and the guy is a douche , their not married etc then all is fair in love and war! But if its a friend then no, you don't want to cross that line! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atticus Finch of Maycomb Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 I think Stu wrote "girlfriend" when he meant to write "dinner" still doesn't explain why stu wrote 'mate' in his opening post. maybe we could just put that down to wishful thinking on stu's part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 still doesn't explain why stu wrote 'mate' in his opening post. maybe we could just put that down to wishful thinking on stu's part. You are still off the mark sonny jim. Try again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weston Super Saint Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken. A bit of duck tape over the mouth, some handcuffs, a few drops of Rhohipnol and nobody will be any the wiser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 who cares what she thinks..take what you want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norwaysaint Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 So Dave Benson Phillips is the new name Stupidromseysaint came up with? Brilliant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scotty Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 In my humble opinion the she is fair game if you don't know the bloke, if you know the bloke but not really mates then it depends what he is like, if he is a tit then it's fine. The only no in my opinion is mates. I would think family was another area off-limits, best not to make a move on your brothers/fathers/uncles/etc bird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 WHat about if your mate goes away for a few months? Is it doing the right thing to service his missus? I mean, after all, women have needs too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thedelldays Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 see if you can give it to her in installments stu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 25 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 25 June, 2010 see if you can give it to her in installments stu You are still wrong. Can we stay on subject please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastleighSoulBoy Posted 25 June, 2010 Share Posted 25 June, 2010 You are still wrong. Can we stay on subject please. The subject, deserving it's own thread, should be: DBP is he StanDune or StuRomseyRant in disguise? Remember your promise to me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hamilton Saint Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 If you really mean that, you are very wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CB Saint Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 WHat about if your mate goes away for a few months? Is it doing the right thing to service his missus? I mean, after all, women have needs too? What like on a submarine? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 26 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 26 June, 2010 What like on a submarine? Yes, just like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 26 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 26 June, 2010 What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him. In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa? Is that wrong? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustMike Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustMike Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him. In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa? Is that wrong? ah, now this is different. She doesnt want him so must be honest and tell him. Then, go for it (once the bed sheets have cooled down though) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 26 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 26 June, 2010 flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus? They wouldn't, because I am amazing in the sack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skintsaint Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 I once took another mans man but thats another story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Duckhunter Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 "Stealing" another mans bird is off limits, but borrowing her is a different matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mack rill Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus? If he promised to keep her i could possibly stretch to paying him a Fiver:blush: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldNick Posted 26 June, 2010 Share Posted 26 June, 2010 What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him. In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa? Is that wrong? if she's that much of a cow, tell her to f### off and take him for a drink Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 28 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 28 June, 2010 Does anyone have any stories of stealing peoples girlfriends from the weekend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Georgie Posted 28 June, 2010 Share Posted 28 June, 2010 I find it unlikely that a guy like you, Stu, is ever going to be in the position to have a mate, girlfriend or both. he had the chance to have a girlfriend, but turned me down ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 28 June, 2010 Share Posted 28 June, 2010 he had the chance to have a girlfriend, but turned me down ;-) You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Georgie Posted 28 June, 2010 Share Posted 28 June, 2010 You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low. Is there, i have yet to find it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 28 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 28 June, 2010 You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low. I shall suggest your friendship on Facebook. No need to thank me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkish Posted 28 June, 2010 Share Posted 28 June, 2010 I shall suggest your friendship on Facebook. No need to thank me. I dont want your cast offs tubby. Sorry Georige, but if this c*** is your standard then in the words of Peter Jones, i'm out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Georgie Posted 28 June, 2010 Share Posted 28 June, 2010 I dont want your cast offs tubby. Sorry Georige, but if this c*** is your standard then in the words of Peter Jones, i'm out. I'm going to stay single because 'I am not ready for a relationship' apparently, then at least I won't get hurt. Ha. And I'm not a cast off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Benson Phillips Posted 28 June, 2010 Author Share Posted 28 June, 2010 This thread seems to be going slightly off-topic and has the potential to turn into one of the great personal arguments to come out on Saintsweb, worthy of Golden Posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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