Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 13 September, 2008 Posted 13 September, 2008 Anyone else find this really weird? She was kind of an ex, we were not officially together but I knocked her hip out a few times. Things fizzed out as I was kind of with someone while seeing her and it didnt end well. I havent seen her for about 5 or 6 years and saw her last night. She is even more stunning now then she was then, and she was hot then! I appologised for being a twart to her and chatted for a bit. I now cant stop thinking about her and although I wouldnt do anything as im engaged and getting married next year, I cant help but think how things would have been if I had ended up with her. Best looking girl I have ever and no doubt will ever have! :smt073
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 13 September, 2008 Author Posted 13 September, 2008 You're entitled to your opinion I guess. I do not think I am. I was a little naughty in the past but whose past is 100% perfect? All that matters is that im not a naughty boy now, which im not. I was merely appologising to said ex for the way I left things all those years ago, and commenting on what a stunner she has become.
Thedelldays Posted 13 September, 2008 Posted 13 September, 2008 You're entitled to your opinion I guess. I do not think I am. I was a little naughty in the past but whose past is 100% perfect? All that matters is that im not a naughty boy now, which im not. I was merely appologising to said ex for the way I left things all those years ago, and commenting on what a stunner she has become. in other words, being creepy and trying to 'back in there'
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 13 September, 2008 Author Posted 13 September, 2008 You're entitled to your opinion I guess. I do not think I am. I was a little naughty in the past but whose past is 100% perfect? All that matters is that im not a naughty boy now, which im not. I was merely appologising to said ex for the way I left things all those years ago, and commenting on what a stunner she has become. in other words, being creepy and trying to 'back in there' Someone didnt read the post. I was appologising as I didnt want her to think I felt no guilt for what I did. Not because I wanted to get in her knickers again.
bridge too far Posted 13 September, 2008 Posted 13 September, 2008 Someone didnt read the post. I was appologising as I didnt want her to think I felt no guilt for what I did. Not because I wanted to get in her knickers again. She probably didn't care anyway, TBF
wheels Posted 13 September, 2008 Posted 13 September, 2008 Anyone else find this really weird? She was kind of an ex, we were not officially together but I knocked her hip out a few times. Things fizzed out as I was kind of with someone while seeing her and it didnt end well. I havent seen her for about 5 or 6 years and saw her last night. She is even more stunning now then she was then, and she was hot then! I appologised for being a twart to her and chatted for a bit. I now cant stop thinking about her and although I wouldnt do anything as im engaged and getting married next year, I cant help but think how things would have been if I had ended up with her. Best looking girl I have ever and no doubt will ever have! :smt073 Hope your fiancee doesn't read this
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 13 September, 2008 Author Posted 13 September, 2008 Hope your fiancee doesn't read this Im all about the personality!
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 13 September, 2008 Author Posted 13 September, 2008 She probably didn't care anyway, TBF Possibly not, but I thought I owed it to her anyway
saint_stevo Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 my ex mrs came to the wedding i was at tonight, as my current mrs and looked hot as fook. she is ultimatly secsual and game me wood
hamster Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 I cant stop thinking about her...... ....I wouldnt do anything...... im engaged and getting married next year.... I cant help but think how things would have been. Call the wedding off, it will saved you £housand£ in the long run if you do it now.
Glasgow_Saint Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 She is fit! Go for it man she is defo up 'four' it!!
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 14 September, 2008 Author Posted 14 September, 2008 Call the wedding off, it will saved you £housand£ in the long run if you do it now. I didnt mean it in the way 'Im not happy now and wonder how things would be if I was with the other girl'... I meant it in the way... I have a house with my Mrs to be, getting married, etc etc, would things have been the same with the other girl had I chose to be with her. Would I even still be with her? I doubt I would have a house let alone getting married. It was a thought rather than an 'I wish' kind of statement.
Deppo Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 Hope your fiancee doesn't read this She does'nt read.
Calvin Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 I didnt mean it in the way 'Im not happy now and wonder how things would be if I was with the other girl'... I meant it in the way... I have a house with my Mrs to be, getting married, etc etc, would things have been the same with the other girl had I chose to be with her. Would I even still be with her? I doubt I would have a house let alone getting married. It was a thought rather than an 'I wish' kind of statement. Yeah but whats the point of getting married if you have some doubts. you really need to reconsider where your feelings are, otherwise the chances of a failed marriage will increase.
Calvin Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 Calvin are you a marriage councillor? I wouldn't mind as the pay aint too bad. But never. I don't like easy jobs. Are you a married man who is being dominated by the missus?
wheels Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 I didnt mean it in the way 'Im not happy now and wonder how things would be if I was with the other girl'... I meant it in the way... I have a house with my Mrs to be, getting married, etc etc, would things have been the same with the other girl had I chose to be with her. Would I even still be with her? I doubt I would have a house let alone getting married. It was a thought rather than an 'I wish' kind of statement. She's an EX for a reason right???
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 14 September, 2008 Author Posted 14 September, 2008 Your EX is a very lucky woman. Still taking about my ex? Yes she is lucky, she is a stunner, that would make her quite lucky. And she doesnt have piles either, which makes her and me for that fact lucky. Your not very lucky though are you dog? Yeah but whats the point of getting married if you have some doubts. you really need to reconsider where your feelings are, otherwise the chances of a failed marriage will increase. I dont have doubts, it was more of a curious thought. Im happy with my Mrs to be. Just was weird to see the ex again after so long. She's an EX for a reason right??? Yes, I was a bit of a **** to her (she was my bit on the side) and ended it with her to stay with my current Mrs. Twas only just after I got with my current Mrs having been single for a while. The whole waiting for a bus scenario.
Johnny Shearer Posted 14 September, 2008 Posted 14 September, 2008 [quote name= Twas only just after I got with my current Mrs having been single for a while. The whole waiting for a bus. I dont wait for no bus.
Ruffo Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 I bump into my exes all the time. It is weird.
Scudamore Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 I bump uglies with my ex all the time. It keeps me in sex if i'm struggling.
saints_is_the_south Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 My last ex was sat the row in front of me at the Birmingham cup game a few weeks back. T'was a tad awkward considering i hadn't seen or spoken to her in 2 years despite both knowing the fact we still have feelings for each other. Just found a new missus as of last week but i still couldn't say I'd refuse teh ex should we get talking again.
Dicko Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 (edited) I saw an ex in a pub 6 months back. She looked mighty fine and couldn't resist slapping her arse when I walked passed her. She responed by throwing a JD & coke over me. I don't rate my chances there Edited 16 September, 2008 by Dicko
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 16 September, 2008 Author Posted 16 September, 2008 I saw an ex in a pub 6 months back. She looked mighty fine and couldn't resist slapping her arse when I walked past her. She responed by throwing a JD & coke over me. I don't rate my chances there Im not so sure? The fact she wasted a JD and coke on you obviously shows she still cares! Now if it had been a bacardi breezer then I would have agreed...
Master Bates Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 IMO, seeing ex's is great, however don't swap numbers and start texting each other mentioning the 'good old days' - if you want to keep your current relationship. Oh and don't arrange to meet up over text either.
Jillyanne Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 IMO, seeing ex's is great, however don't swap numbers and start texting each other mentioning the 'good old days' - if you want to keep your current relationship. Oh and don't arrange to meet up over text either. Kiss kiss kiss.
foghorn Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 I knocked her hip out a few times. Was she a pensioner?
Robsk II Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 An ex of mine is still gorgeous, again, perhaps even better than ever, and in many ways seems to have sorted some of the things that made me split up with her. I've been thinking about whether or not I was foolish to split up with her or not recently, but I suppose I had my reasons and generally things don't change too much. The odd thing is that on paper, many think I should see it differently, seeing as she is someone I care about deeply and she really is a stunner. But you know. An ex is an ex for a reason.
foghorn Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 An ex of mine is still gorgeous, again, perhaps even better than ever, and in many ways seems to have sorted some of the things that made me split up with her. I've been thinking about whether or not I was foolish to split up with her or not recently, but I suppose I had my reasons and generally things don't change too much. The odd thing is that on paper, many think I should see it differently, seeing as she is someone I care about deeply and she really is a stunner. But you know. An ex is an ex for a reason.
Jillyanne Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 Robsk was with Jill? :shock: Nah, my hair is longer and darker than that.
scott_saints Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 Nah, my hair is longer and darker than that. But apart from that....?
Jillyanne Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 But apart from that....? You tell me Scotty.
scott_saints Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 You tell me Scotty. She's a tad better x
Jillyanne Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 She's a tad better x Thanks sweetheart. x
hamster Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 I was a bit of a **** to her..... (she was my bit on the side)!!! \/ + U =
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 16 September, 2008 Author Posted 16 September, 2008 \/ + U = no no no. Im perfectly happy with my mrs
notnowcato Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 you don't have to be a clinical innerweb psychologist to clearly see that seeing your ex has left you wondering that things could have been better. Nighty, night. Sleep tight.
hamster Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 I really do think that the best advice is that you discuss this dilemma with your 'intended'. I am soory to be the bearer of bad news, but if you have sescrets in a marriage, then you have nothing. I apologise for getting all condescending and all that, but I reckon that I speak for most people reading your posts in saying that if yo marry this poor girl, it WILL NOT last. PS Can I have her phone number current missus or the bit of squeeze (I'm not fussy).
saint_stevo Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 its worse when you accidently walk in and see some massive muscular bloke hanging out the back of your ex-mrs
Kadeem Hardison Posted 16 September, 2008 Posted 16 September, 2008 Ponty and saint stevo know each other from prison.
Crouchie's Lawyer Posted 17 September, 2008 Author Posted 17 September, 2008 I really do think that the best advice is that you discuss this dilemma with your 'intended'. I am soory to be the bearer of bad news, but if you have sescrets in a marriage, then you have nothing. I apologise for getting all condescending and all that, but I reckon that I speak for most people reading your posts in saying that if yo marry this poor girl, it WILL NOT last. PS Can I have her phone number current missus or the bit of squeeze (I'm not fussy). Im happy with her believe me! It was just strange to see her. Discussing an ex with your current Mrs is suicide, thats an unwritten male rule, you should know this! If you have feelings for them or not. Women are just made of skin, bones and jealousy!
saint boggy Posted 17 September, 2008 Posted 17 September, 2008 (edited) Im happy with her believe me! It was just strange to see her. Discussing an ex with your current Mrs is suicide, thats an unwritten male rule, you should know this! If you have feelings for them or not. Women are just made of skin, bones and jealousy![/quote] wow!!, for one so young you certainly know women pretty well!!!:smt045 FWIW , wondering how things might've turned out with your ex is completely natural.....i'm sure everyone who has an ex would have to concede that point. Edited 17 September, 2008 by saint boggy
Special K Posted 18 September, 2008 Posted 18 September, 2008 Im happy with her believe me! It was just strange to see her. Discussing an ex with your current Mrs is suicide, thats an unwritten male rule, you should know this! If you have feelings for them or not. Women are just made of skin, bones and jealousy! What a load of horsesh!t. It's healthy to compare your current tart with an ex. How else will they learn? For example, if your missus knows your ex gave better nosh than she does, she'll have to improve. Simple.
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